Re: F.O.B. V.S. A.B.C.D.
^ That’s exactly how I feel. Sometimes I feel a bit lost, as to what I am, more British or Pakistani. 
But at other times I feel may be we get the best of both worlds. But I don’t really think we can label people and put them into little boxes, like Reha said I’ve seen more Paskitaniat in some western born kids and more Westernism in some Pakistani kids, if that makes sense.
I just feel all these terms like ABCDS, Mangoes, Teps, FOBS, are so negative, we 're individual people in our own ways. I’m not sure about other cultures but I’ve seen quite some attitude thrown either way, from people from Pakistan towards desis from abroad and vice versa.