It’s such a huge thing for a girl to be outgoing and friendly. I’m not, well I’m friendly but I don’t make an effort to hang out with people or to maintain ties with them and whenever me and my sister fight, she always throws it back into my face. Same with my mom, she’s constantly telling me to be good and like other proper little brides are and tells me stories of divorce. Okay well, I’m an extremely unsocial loner.
What about you guys? It’s such a hard thing to admit for girls huh. For guys it’s almost sexy and romantic and makes them seem so mysterious.
Sadiyah..:(..hey..i know you don't know me or anything..but anytime you feel like killing yourself..you can talk to me..:)..don't kill urself..inshAllah you won' t because you know its a sin..everyone's here for a reason, and if your reason was lost to us, we would all be lost in some sense...but still..if you ever wanna talk..ill pm you my screen name..i know how you feel..trust me..you too Sarah.
Woah!! I'm happy with my life. I just posted this because I find it interesting that people think of being an introvert as such a bad quality. It can be a good thing too you know, it doesn't have to come with suicide and fights.
Yeah same here, I can't remember making much small talk to anyone besides my husband. It's not like I can't find people like me sharing my interests or whatever, it's just that they make me feel awkward. I saw a girl I knew today and she called out and said salam and how are you and i said fine and hurried away. It was surreal, but I felt so awkward. I love to be around people but I know and like but I don't like to talk much most of the time. I never know what to say to someone, like a potential friend, whether to tell something personal or not and I hate surface conversation. If I don't know someone well then their ideas and small talk seem inane and stifling and I can;t seem to get away. And like I've noticed it's worse when im in school, I literally have a really hard time keeping my voice level and talking slowwwly and enunciating, it's excruciatingly painful.
i m a bit of introvert. Im comfortable around people i love n like n possibly like n as long as i can be myself in front of them, i dont mind hangin out talkin or going out. If im in a new surrounding n i dont clik with anyone ill gladly sit alone n watch tv or find sumthin else to amuse myself than sit with omeone an have awkward phony n formal lil talks.
Yeah I know exactly how it feels to be introvert and not know what to say at times when you are surrounded with pple who expect u to make conversation and you don’t have a clue what to say. I used to envy extrovert seing how easily they could make friends and stuff, but at the end of the day, u can’t be someone you are not and have to be comfortable with who you are. No matter what other people say.
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Hang in there… time cures all… 