Extremely possessive..

pinkyy · February 25, 2012, 10:29am

A question:

Ladies: Would you be okay to marry a man who is extremely possessive that, he doesn’t give you enough freedom to do things you like, like, just say, to use facebook, blackberry, and wouldn’t even tolerate a guy looking at you? Is it okay? Or is it too controlling which can create major issues later in future?

dreamMerchant · February 25, 2012, 12:13pm

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Don't marry such a psycho. You will be suffocated to death.

Mad_Hatter · February 25, 2012, 12:35pm

Does he have a nice laptop or car?

kakaballi · February 25, 2012, 12:40pm

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or at least disclose the latest bank statements....

Xtron · February 26, 2012, 4:25am

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This is not relationship..this is madness!

spoko · February 26, 2012, 4:27am

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umm no ... I would refer him to a good psychologist though

ninja_hattori · February 26, 2012, 4:28am

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so do you change movie plots into life1 questions…?

P.S.let me know question is inspired by darar or agnisakshi ?

McPendo · February 26, 2012, 4:34am

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Dafauq?! What kinda person is he?!

Reha · February 26, 2012, 4:38am

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If you felt the need to ask...its probably giving you a bad feeling.

Never marry a man who isolates you.

redvelvet · February 26, 2012, 4:46am

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If you've created a thread about this....then it's because you KNOW deep down inside that this is not a healthy situation and that it's NOT okay. By restricting you...he's not only disrespecting you, it also shows that he can't trust you. Can't have a relationship without trust or respect, right? Well, you're having issues with him at present....so yeah, unless he changes...you will have major issues in the future. I hope that this is either a hypothetical question or a situation dealing with someone else. There seems to be a pattern to your threads about disturbing relationships/scenarios....and I personally think that you already know the answer to your questions.

_Passionate · February 26, 2012, 4:50am

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Of course it’s a problem!

“Can’t even tolerate a guy looking at you”…what bakwas. Like you can control who looks at you and who doesn’t.

mirage · February 26, 2012, 5:25am

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*this.*

Deeba1234 · February 26, 2012, 11:58pm

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No, wouldn't be ok with it.. and anyone who goes ahead and marries someone like this knowing about their personality beforehand is just asking for trouble imo

Naughty_sheema · November 21, 2012, 5:44pm

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ager apka fiance ap sy kahy mere sath pori rat bat kro or yea possible na ho ya bat krty huwe koi apko bar bar bulaye or jana pry tu en sab chez per gusa ana normal hai kia? had sy ziada gusa

KKF · November 21, 2012, 5:52pm

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being extremely possessive is a sickness. it's a mental disorder. do you think you should marry a mental?

polished_gems · November 21, 2012, 6:17pm

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No. he sounds disturbing, I wish to marry someone with a healthy, flexible mind.

McPendo · November 21, 2012, 6:25pm

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Madness.. THIS IS SPARTA!

queer · November 21, 2012, 6:37pm

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it just means he loves you a lot. marry him at a grand ceremony where he doesn't let you invite any male relatives.

Nightingale · November 22, 2012, 9:23am

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This sounds soooooooo........ disturbing.