Extreme

[hareem01]

Re: Extreme

I think I agree with trusting muslims what they tell us but if someone has doubt in his heart regarding other muslim's served meat then that is also fine with me.

Trusting every muslim even a scholar blindly, and on the other hand, not trusting any muslim when he shows the proof.....being on either side means extreme.

[saieen]

@ume-zafeerah

Seriously to what extreme end people go? I have two or three friends who didn’t eat chicken for two years because their so called husbands haven’t confirmed where the chicken is coming from or how they cut it?One of our relatives mother died and the son didn’t come to his mother’s funeral because he was busy in raye wind doing jamat work.So it was more important and his sister saw in dream since he was so busy in right work that ALLAH granted his mother jannah and she was happy.Wallah alam but to me its a bit extreme.And one of my relatives told us that woman’s real hajj is considered when she performs hajj with her husband.What about all the mehrams their hajj is not a hajj if they do it with their sons or dad:vivo:
Anyways this thread is not open to offend maulvis but my question is that to what extend care is required?I know namaz,zakat, hajj and roza these are fard and major things to avoid eat halaal, avoid lies, no soud or alchohol and some major things but when you say this muslim is not good so I don’t wanna buy chicken from this one guy or this person is not coming to masjid to say his prayers how can I trust him he is telling a truth is a bit too much extreme.

Share your views on it how you will deal with such stuff if these people come into your lives and try to take hold of you oh you are not doing this thing you are not a muslim. Or your hajj is not proper because you didn’t do it with your husband .

this post itself is an extreme view of things. just bcos they don’t confine to your views/opinions…they have become extremists in your eyes and you in theirs. a vicious cycle which will take you to nowhere.

[saieen]

@hareem01

I think I agree with trusting muslims what they tell us but if someone has doubt in his heart regarding other muslim's served meat then that is also fine with me.

Trusting every muslim even a scholar blindly, and on the other hand, not trusting any muslim when he shows the proof.....being on either side means extreme.

what kind of proof you want? and if someone shows you the proof...are you going to accept it as is or you will question its authenticity as well? or you only want proof from a scholar you follow and trust?

bahanay hazaar hain agar kuch kerna na ho...

[diwana]

Re: Extreme

I do not think its a matter of not trusting other person. That was my first reaction when I heard about my friend but then I had a second thought.

Its a matter of being careful for someone what to consume. Everyone has a way of interpreting what they think is best for them. Some people like to see exactly how the meat was made.

Its not hidden that even so called halal/zabiha places sell non-halal/zabiha food and if someone is just knowingly buying that then its OK but some people do not want to take chance Thats all.

It does look like someone is trying to show off however, the holier than thou kind of feeling might be ours. Kinda self guilt for no reason. People are Ok if you do not feed them meat. They do not insist on that.

By the way I personally eat at my friends with no particular exception.

I am just giving a thought to be tolerant and not be annoyed with careful people.