I actually used to know of a UK born Pakistani guy who married a woman from Pak, after three years he knew he loved her, but just wasnt getting that satisfaction from her so used to have an extramarital affair with a goree. The goree whom I knew thru work said she used to ask him to leave his wife, but he said he cudnt cus he loved her and plus he had a child with her and even another on the way, but that he wanted more sex which obviously the pakistani woman wasnt giving him. sad really!
Two wrongs don't make a right but if that was the only reason...then why wasn't she having sex wiht him?
Sex is a part of marriage. It's a misconception that men are horny and ONLY want sex and women are pure and NEVER want sex. Its almost always somewhere in the middle.
Neither spouse should ever deliberately withhold or force sex on each other.