Extramarital affair..

Lifestyle Relationships
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so men do it for a reason and women without a reason:bizz:

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Lahol…:no:

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I find it much more disturbing than polygamy.

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^Agreed, if you're that horny (pardon my language please).... ask your wife permission to marry another, if she understands you enough and loves you enough, she will be fine with it.

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allowing has nothign to with loving him enough :mad:

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Or neatly remove his bollocks while he sleeps. Na rahay ga baans.... (obvious pun intended).

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IMHO a man who is satisfied with his sex life (with his wife) will not cheat on her or even think of marrying another, so either tend to his needs or give him permission to marry another. You can cook and clean and be all motherly while his second wife keeps him happy in bed.

Same goes for women, if a man doesn't keep his wife happy and satisfied, she might cheat then (although most don't) since their head is not ruled by this need.

P.S. Ignore ON for jaanwar

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*A cheater doesn't need a reason to cheat, he'll get it where ever he can find it! *

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^Then the reason would be that he craves variety or maybe he's an addict.

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  1. Because they had the option.
  2. It boosts their ego.
  3. You grow apart.
  4. You argue a lot.
  5. He’s fallen out of love.
  6. Your sex life sucks.
  7. To get revenge.
  8. It’s new, different and exciting.
  9. To see if they can get away with it.
  10. Because you have allowed it in the past.

and yea IT IS that easy :smiley:

Ref: womansavers.com

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Variety is a possibility, I'm not sure about an addict.

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waah waah, kiya research hai… shaabaash Naami :p.
Where’s the list for why women cheat?

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Not much research , I just googled it like any normal , wise human being .

Start a new thread and I'll post it there :p

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You need to leave life1. this is a 'grown up' cafe. :P

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@kakaballi: I see tht :cb:

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I actually used to know of a UK born Pakistani guy who married a woman from Pak, after three years he knew he loved her, but just wasnt getting that satisfaction from her so used to have an extramarital affair with a goree. The goree whom I knew thru work said she used to ask him to leave his wife, but he said he cudnt cus he loved her and plus he had a child with her and even another on the way, but that he wanted more sex which obviously the pakistani woman wasnt giving him. sad really!

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the obvious reason ... either the guy was never loyal in the first place or the sex life sucked.

a pre-marital affair or an extra-marital one...it's ZINA for crying out loud. You just can't justify it for ANY reason! Kuch khuda khofi bhi honi chaye.

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I don't understand why "he wasn't getting enough with wife" is a even a justification...I think it only reflects the fact that the guy is trying to evade responsibilities of his sins and blame it on his wife...

Zina is only the sin of two people involved and reflects a great weakness of faith and fear in Allah, and punishments in the afterlife.

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There is never any right reason for extra/premarital affairs

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I think its a pity that us women undermine this aspect of marriage (the intimacy), it is very very important to guys, which most women don't realize. Just like when women are in love, they don't get any rational thoughts and listen to their hearts only.... men also get irrational about this (doesn't justify any thing though). The more women realize that, the better for marriages.