Re: Extra Weight
I dont want to be personal but the way you judge others, you never know people dont consider you as a match because of your flaws? Like you mentioned somewhere you are looking for pakistani guy preferably and most of pakistani guys/families prefer dubli patli,oonchi lambi larki no matter how kala kalota mota bhadda the guy himself is. You cannot get everything in your criteria list of a spouse checked in one man.
Re: Extra Weight
You should merry someone who you are attracted too. Good Luck :)
Re: Extra Weight
A little overweight and even too much may be ok but depends on their attitude. If they're like no its no problem i won't get diabetes, even as a south asian i am at a higher risk, i wont get massive oozy pus from foot ulcers due to my complications of diabetes. No i won't get heart disease, loss of sensation of my feet and amputated foot and no i won't get strokes as a result of my diabetes. No, i won't get reduced vision and kidney problems and i wont hit into objects because i can't sense things. No i wont have any heart complications. Then No they are not the rishta to go for. Someone willing to change will have a positive pro-active outlook. Don't go there PCG.
Re: Extra Weight
weren't you like 20lbs overweight a year ago? well done for losing weight, but cut the guys some slack...
Re: Extra Weight
if these fat guys knew what they were getting into they would run a mile.
which would probably jump-start their weight loss journey and they will end up marrying all the other girls. 