Extra marital affair

Lifestyle Relationships
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there must be some deficiency in their relationship which attracted her towards another man -

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I heard men use such excuses to cheat, but women are catching up! interesting..

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What a sad situation for both of them. I have to wonder though if all of the posters who are recommending that he divorce her would give the same advice if it was the man doing the cheating.

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its funny how everyone is defending the woman as if it's the husbands fault..but if a man cheats its all hell breaks loose

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I thinking cheating is cheating regardless of who does it and why.

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absolutely right, Niksik.

the other thing is, people find comfort in other people and if they cant commit, they leave people in a sense of guilt too. that is not good. those women and men, who are not happy in their marriages, must first fuly cut off from their prior spouse and then approach other mutually interested people, so that they can do so with purty of conscience, but cheating is not at all something that should be called a mistake. it is a conscious decision to engage in flirting affair while being married and there is no pardon for it for oth genders, the rule ought to be & is the same.

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I'm certainly not defending the wife, or accusing the husband of making a mistake. Clearly the wife has committed a terrible sin, and one that I would have trouble forgiving. However, a man I know recently cheated on his wife, and the older women in the community were advising her to forgive him, hence my question.

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actually..if the man cheated i think ppl would be telling the girl to forgive even more..

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My 2 cents here..
Sexual satisfaction is not just one factor to keep marriage alive.. as i mentioned in previous posts.. the attitude is the thing....a real loving woman wont even give a chance to her husband to use internet even ehehehe..
its v complicated thing buddies...extra marital relations are everywhere..mostly with guys..but it has two school of thoughts.. if things are transparent between the friends...in limits , u can be-friend to share ur feelings , problems...
wife/husband doesnt mean that they r sharing everything... to live with high nose girl is as good as living alone..

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no no if the wife cheats its ok she shud be forgiven but if the husband cheats, he should be castrated then hanged :rolleyes:

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In our culture..marriages are imposed.... I at least praise west in that.. there is no such thing as compromise there.. here we are compromising..
girls in most cases but guys too.. they spend their whole married life in insecurties and tension and cant even say a word.. and kids are the biggest factor to keep the marriage alive...
cheating is cheating i understand , but if the guy is getting so tough time at home in every dot..what is he supposed to do..

I assume if the parents are responsible for the act of adultery in case of non-marriage of their children then wife/hubby are also responsible if the guy/girl is not getting things complete...

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mashallah !!