Extended family expecting "help" from inlaws

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Re: Extended family expecting “help” from inlaws

@Demesne

Wow @NoMi ! a proper answer!

ok so the bold highlighted part, does that include inlaws? Is it proper to ask girl’s parents for help?
Suppose you have two bahus, and only ask one bahu’s parents and not the other’s? Granted one is more affluent than the other but neither really have ties to that. It comes off as a bit greedy to me.

I don’t find it as anything particularly offensive. We get asked for help from lot of people, family, friends, friends of parents, neighbors, extended family etc etc. If you can help them do it, if you cannot just say so.