Extended family expecting "help" from inlaws

[Reha]

Re: Extended family expecting “help” from inlaws

@NomiCA

Different families have different views/principles regarding such issues…

First..
Some do believe that anyone who is a relative (no matter how distant) is supposed to help out others…some even do extend this to greater ‘‘braadri’’ and do help out their kinsmen…

second
others are there who believe that such sort of helping out is only to be for the close family…or keeping in view the “susraal” angle as you seemed to point out…

and finally, there are opportunistic people…who would ask anyone and be ‘leechar’

while first two can be considered to be just different family values/outlooks…you can’t strictly call it right or wrong…its just different…

.the third one,however, is plain greedyness…

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