Some people can’t let go of their ex’s. Some people are just stuck and can’t seem to look past their ex’s even though they have moved on with their life and maybe in some sort of a comited relationship (i.e. mangni/shadi). Opinions ?
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coz they have history with someone and that too a good one..thats a person's mind and not a blackboard that u easily erase the old text and write a new one..
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I can't forget m ex-gf. I just sit there on my PC crying all day and looking at her pictures . :p
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experience talking?
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Some people can't let go of their ex's. Some people are just stuck and can't seem to look past their ex's even though they have moved on with their life and maybe in some sort of a comited relationship (i.e. mangni/shadi). Opinions ?
What do you mean by "can't let go"? Can't stop thinking about? Can't stop wanting to talk to? Because if that's true, they haven't really moved on from that person.
And for life to be easy, it is best to actually emotionally move on.
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and somone told me that itz more difficult for the guys to move on rather than the girls..is that true?
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Its best to get busy with life and move past these things...the human being is a very resilient and strong creature. Allah swt has created us in a way where we can withstand almost anything in life...so always remember...this too shall pass.
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people give ur views on that...i am liking the topic :D
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What do you mean by "can't let go"? Can't stop thinking about? Can't stop wanting to talk to? Because if that's true, they haven't really moved on from that person.
And for life to be easy, it is best to actually emotionally move on.
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I don't think you can ever forget a bad experience or an experience that made you hurt , sad & angry be it with your ex or with anyone else. It's perfectly ok to remember your experience and it does not mean you are missing your ex. Time is the biggest healer and with time the pain coming from bitter memories reduces. I have an ex and I thank everyday to Allah that he is not in my life anymore but that does not mean that I have completely forgotten him .
The past will always be there but one needs to move on because it is not wise to spoil your future over some past events and experiences . Better to live for future than to live in your past.
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when your ex goes to the extent of hurting your parents, then you have nothing but bad duas for them.
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isn't it haram to have a relationship before marriage? just asking. it looks like chewing gums make you commit fitnah. tauba
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Some people can't let go of their ex's. Some people are just stuck and can't seem to look past their ex's even though they have moved on with their life and maybe in some sort of a comited relationship (i.e. mangni/shadi). Opinions ?
Took me not more than a day : ) Though, the hurt lingered on for a long time but alhamdulillah I was able to sort out my priorities in a day or so.
I decided I would not let her blackmail me or try to bring me down, no matter what. That I had to continue on my path come what may. I have not talked or tried talking to her even once since that day 3 years back. It surprises everyone around me and people still ask me if I was ever in touch with her after the breakup. And the truth is that I have not despite her efforts.
Actually, the incident made me so much stronger that I had the best two years of my life right after she was out of my life. It completely changed my perspective on life, ethics, morals, and the need of religion in our lives.
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and what is MOVING ON actually? when u don't Love or Hate that person? if u are just angry over someone u dun have relation with anymore, what would be that?
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Keep reminding yourself of the reason why you broke up with him/her.
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i think if the reason u cant have them because of rasmain kasmain khandaan and stufff. its alot harder to movee onn.. but if u the one who broke up with them because t hey turned out to be total jerkk that u absolutely hated.. then it wont take you a sec to start enjoying ur life again
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If you have a past good for you, it's when ex's step into your present that causes troubles and heartache. If he/she was horrible to you and things ended badly, even more reason not to be in contact with them.
Quoting a hadith here, which can be used for any relationship:
"One who tries to severe ties between two people, never enters jannah"
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when your ex goes to the extent of hurting your parents, then you have nothing but bad duas for them.
Woah...no one deserves "bad duas" regardless of what they've done...it takes a very vindictive person to pray for something bad to happen to someone else. Oh and it also makes them drama queens/kings.