This is for all the GS men here who can’t seem to get their feelings out, for fear they will lose their balls.
If you feel something, no matter how wishy washy it is, towards a girl (negative or positive, folks, romantic or unromantic), just say it to her. Don’t beat around the bush, and don’t get all chittee and pissy about it.
So far in the past 2 weeks or so, I have encountered a few male guppies here who get all cranky and pissy, and when I talk to them or they decide to send me a PM or approach me on digi or whatever, it turns out that they were either hurt, or confused, or whatever - benign feelings that can easily be diminished by a good heart to heart talk or a simple explanation.
So, please, boys, learn to communicate. Its okay. Girls wont bite you if you’re seedha saadha and honest.
thats a tough one now, a girl told me that once already ! but in my case i actualy had no feelings to express. may be a little bit but mouth held i guess …
I know this is a really difficult concept for a lot of you to follow, but perhaps for once you should actually try and remain on topic instead of diverting the topic.
PCG, I think it comes down to a comfort level. In the beginning, it is difficult for men to open up, but once the trust is there and they feel confidant enough to share their feelings, they usually don’t have a problem doing so. It could also do with the fact that the girl seems intimidating and men just get scared of approaching her. I guess the key is to make the guy feel comfortable, then he will eventually open up.
Actually guys, hear it from men who have wifes and/or are in a relationship.
The more you keep your feelings to yourself, the more 'manly' and in-control-of-the-situation you appear to your significant other.
From time to time let go of this and let your wife know of how you feel and it makes her feel oh so very romantic and happy.
But overdo the feeling stuff, tell them all about how you feel all the time, and they will start complaining that you are too emotional and what not :)
Mehnaz..baat yeh hai..ki…you see..I am…err…emm…whenever I see you’re online…I mean…like other people who are on line…what I am trying to say …ki…I feel kind of …how do you say…there comes a time when…see the thing is that..never mind.
The market for pushy, treat-me-like-one-of-the-boys, intimidating and over-bearing women is kinda tiny. So of course....most others will either shy away or maybe they really don't have anything to say.
I'm with Mehnaz. It takes sometime to get to a place where guys can share their feelings. Especially intimate ones.
Muzna, are you trying to pick fights here? Never did I mention anything about pushy, treat-me-like-one-of-the-boys, intimidating, and over-bearing woman-type.
