neha
April 6, 2010, 11:32am
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well its easy to learn it. you know the the problem with us we expect that the next person “could” be as nice as we are .. .. stop expecting this .. always think that he is gona be at his worst when you need him .. .. thinking that do the deed or nice thing that you wana do .. it would not come into your mind that he is gona pay you in return.
The second important step towards its learning is .. .. “BE INDEPENDENT” .. don’t ever think that someone is gona help you .. consider yourself alone and whatever you have to do .. its gona be you only. if its time of difficulty then don’t expect someone gona come to give you a shoulder to cry on .. .. this world is harsh and busy .. people doesn’t have that much time out of their lives to sit and listen to your tension bhari dastan .. .. .. be independent and only rely on God .. .. all things will sit on their proper places then ..
if i think like that , i dont think i wud be able to do good to that person..itz human psychy..wen u know someone is gonna be too bad to u, u dun feel like even talking to that person…