I could not find the appropriate section to post this in so apologies in advance. I would like to share my experiences in bodybuilding and weight training with other desis. Hopefully it can help these desis who struggle to put on weight despite months of training. Please note that I am not a professional or expert and all the following is from my own personal experiences.
As you know desis do not have the best genetics in the world- we have a small bone structure and thin builds compared to americans, germans and australians. Our typical build is narrow shoulders, thin forearms and thin legs with a very bad tendency to gain a pot belly without even trying too hard. But to say desis are born to be small is going too far…
Muscle gain is hard - not impossible but hard - even harder when u are not blessed genetically. The two most important things for muscle gain are
- the total calories you consume
- the amount of weight you are lifting
Both of these factors are important but unlike most people might believe I think 2) is more important.. it certainly has been in my case. In our society too much empahsis is placed on eating right - the right calories, the right macronutrients and so on… eating is easy - measuring calories is not much pain - you just have to sit on your behind and eat - the exercise part is harder.
The quantity of weight is perhaps the only factor which will put muscle on you. You MUST push yourself - lifting a new higher range of weights everytime you do weight training. This is essential I believe more than anything else. Say you benched 150 lbs in the last week - try to bench 155 lbs - even if it is one rep or a half/partial rep. I have seen to many guys just lifting the same weight months after months - no wonder they dont look any different.
I dont believe one can ever ever overtrain while weight training. People are so afraid of over-training they dont push themselves hard enough. The average desi guy works out 3-4 time a week. Although good but its not good enough. I personally workout everyday - sometimes twice a day on weekends. People must stop believing stuff like “you will suffer from over-training…” and all other common over-training phobia.
Yes there comes a point where it will feel you are just beating against the bush - eg. you start with 200 lbs on the bench, do 1 set, then do 1 with 190 lbs and so on…as you keep decrementing the weight there might be a weight where the exercise will be of no effect - it will not contribute to muscle growth. Its not fixed for anyone and you have to go with your gut feeling on this one. A good estimate would be (1RM - 40%)
No need to do 3 different exercises for each body part - eg. for chest pick one u like the most and just stick to it. (my favourite is flat bench press). However when I step into a gym Im like a spoiled brat - I want to do everything. bench press, barbell rows, and all other auxillary exericses like rear delt raise, forearm curls etc…
As far as eating is concerned I find eating the same things day in day out makes my life a lot easier. I make all my food myself - the only cooked food I eat is broasted chicken and meat which I make myself. Believe it or not I have eaten the same things for the last one year everyday and the changes in my body are amazing. Developing such eating habits took a lot of time and patience. I failed many many times "cheating on my diet
" before this last one year. There is a certain sense of satisfaction associated with sticking to your diet and you cant really feel it until you have done it. I dont eat any of the usual desi stuff like salan, or rice, biryani etc. - it took massive patience to get over these things.
Eating the same things will allow you to very accurately judge how you are progressing - but remember eating is the easy part - exercise is the hard part - for me anyway.