Re: Ex
Yes which comes back to my point. Not having closure is one thing. Which she obviously doesn't. But the desire to meet with him and speak with on the matter is a bit more than just not closure.
Closure does not require a face to face meeting. It does not linger for 9 years, people get over stuff. If she has not found closure in 9 years then there is more to it.
Edit: My contention is not she wants him back or that she will take him back. That is an assumption you all are making. My point is that she has not achieved closure in 9 years. And that is a bit odd. Secondly I do question her desire to meet him. Not in the aspect that she is head over heals madly in love with him. But she does still have a certain level of feelings for him even after 9 years.