Re: Ex
I am not saying or even implying that she has romantic intentions or intentions to cheat. However after 9 years if the guy has such an affect on her that she freezes up and feels uncomfortable there are feelings present there.
Its not rocket science. The opposite of love is not hate. Its apathy. If you have moved on and have no feelings for said person their presence does not affect you.
The fact that you still wish to speak with him and meet with him is what I find disturbing and I stand by my comments. Your husband is getting a raw deal.