Re: Ex
I agree with RV and fairywings.
No matter how much we hate or feel indifference towards our ex's...when we see them at a different point in our lives...it almost feels like someone punched you. You dont want to be with him again, but you definitely want to give him a piece of your mind and tell him all of those things you werent able to before.
You replay the meeting again and again and pinpoint what you would have done differently had you been just slightly more prepared.
His wife looked at you funny because on some level...she is competing with you. You may not be, but she definitly is.
If you react in anyway, you will be asking for trouble...lots of it so dont.
People who truly wrong you pay the price for it at some point. Maybe not right then and there, maybe a year later, mayb 9 years later. :) Just be satisfied knowing that even after all these years, there is still something his wife needs to compete with.