Ex texted me during no contact

I received a text on what's app, "How are you?"

I ignored it, it's been 3 days and nothing.

why would she do this? What does she want now? From a female perspective what could she possibly want by wanting to know how I am?

Should I reply or block her?

Here’s to another thread just like the one you posted a while back. Our opinion was, is and will be a no as to whether or not you should reply her.

If you had blocked her the last time she reached out to you, this thread wouldn’t be necessary.

No harm in replying I’m good, thanks. Better than keeping thinking about it even three days later.

Forward it to her brother. She’ll stop.

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block…

Mental women can be a lot of fun!!

Define mental.

And, define fun. Just curious

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loooooooool

do this

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from a female perspective; She is probably just curious about what you’re doing, might be bored, maybe new boyfriend dumped her, but whatever it is, who cares?

It has been 3 days, why are you still thinking about it? Let it go.

^^ Lol, that’s what I was thinking. If after 3 days, this guy is still obsessing over one text from her, most prolly he has not taken her “No contact” well. Maybe she doesn’t even know that her text was gone by mistake to the “No contact” guy. Usually, there is a log of all the used numbers & many times, last number in the message log is picked by the sender by mistake. So there is no reason for obsessing 3 days over 1 random text & creating a topic over this subject.

Just reply, “men theek hun pyari behna”

Wont contact ever again

#Behnzoned

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if you dont want her phir mujhe number dedo i

why would she do this? —> She’s probably bored/lonely and wants to talk.

From a female perspective what could she possibly want by wanting to know how I am? —> No one asks how someone else is unless they are interested in them. It can be just to check up on you and it can be nothing more and she misses your convos, etc or she can be looking to get back together.

From your previous posts I would suggest not replying unless you want to re-kindle things.
If you want something serious and she’s playing with you then why drag yourself down that path. It’s not a good use of your time.
Also, if you want to appear like someone who she can throw away then come back and you make it easy for her to do so then she don’t respect/value you.
It all depends on how things ended, etc and if there was any consideration shown.

Don’t think too much into it and move on.

I teach this stuff, humans want what they can’t have. When you were available she didn’t want you. At Costco while eating the hot dog I had to share a table with a Gora and we were talking about our boys and he was saying there are two kinds of women, one you play with and one you want to marry.

Did you always maintain 3 feet Islamic distance?