Kinzz…the thing is that ANYTHING is possible…there are no guarantees. I mean we don’t even have a guarantee about our own feelings.
Example: Let’s say that a happily married woman gets in touch with her ex. The ex is happily married as well. They both start chatting. Well, life is unpredictable and marriages have ups and downs. What if in the near future…the woman and her husband are having a bad spell in their marriage…they’re frequently arguing…things are not going well. She starts talking to her ex…not necessarily about the problems in her marriage…but just generally. And in the process…she starts fantasizing or reminiscing about the good times she shared with him in the good ole days. And the she finds herself struggling with keeping such thoughts away. I’m not saying that this can only happen to the woman…but the guy (ex) can also face the same situation.
Most people don’t have doston ki kami…to phir kya zaroorat hai ex ko dost banany ki? And sometimes…if our own neeyat is saaf…doosray banday ki niyat ghalat ho sakti hai.
^ Also, would a person’s husband/wife feel comfortable knowing that they’re getting back in touch with their ex?