Everything is getting to me, im scared i will break or something, what shall i do?

[SummerFruits]

Re: Everything is getting to me, im scared i will break or something, what shall i do

@Disney_Princess

Ditch your so-called ‘friends’ - they aren’t friends, they are just some other people making your life more difficult than it already is. It may mean you’re alone in the short-term, but you’ll find some new friends through events and work/school, iA. And you’ll find out who your real friends are when you put some distance between yourselves - those who are really your friends will come back.

As for your toxic relatives - don’t worry, we all have some toxic relatives in our families. The best way to deal with them is to put some distance there too and just be civil - ‘hi, bye’ that’s it.

And you need to have a talk with your parents - they need to see what affect this is having on you. Trust me, nobody can see their own child suffering, and maybe this is what they need to show them the real problem, i.e. your relatives and not each other.

May Allah give you a sabr. Ameen.

Thank you:) I try to remain civil with my aunties and other family members and just only answer to them when they ask me or if it really important, otherwise its just a hi or bye. However, I get really down that my relationship with them should not be like this. We should be really close and friendly and chatty etc. I feel so sorry for myself and then so angry with myself because I feel sorry for myself. iA my situation becomes better with time and prayers. Please pray for me too that I can get through this.