The world works in funny ways…iv recently decided to leave single life after a long time and doesnt the world want to test me…
i get girls anyway but since i confirmed that im not single females seem to love me even more…and these are girls that dont even know im not single…
My first day as a committed man…i had a stunning Iranian girl approach me…i had to keep it civil…it was so so hard…she had those large eyes, tanned skinned…same day i had a stunning black girl with the most amazing curves appraoch me…again i had to be civil and not ask for a number or anything…now these things happen on the street anyway but these girls that approched me where a lot better than the average…
As if it wasnt already a tempting day…a cute white girl gets on the train…smiles at me and makes conversation with me and gets off at my stop…i had to be civil…stay strong and say bye…i never get randoms chatting to me on the bus…why wont the world leave me alone…
And to compound matters…my ex who hasnt chatted to me for ages and ages texts me at the end of the evening to see how im getting on…why you doing this to me:confused: …
Seems the world wants to break you when your not single…
I dont know what it is…but everyone i know seems to get so much more attention when suddenly they enter a relationship…i dont know whether you look different or have a different aura about you but things certainly do work out differently…my friend never gets approached but he got girls flirting when he suddenly got with his girl…so weird and so cruel…you try to be good and the world tries its hardest to break you…
Now where were these girls when i was single:teary1: …
they wouldnt approach you if you didnt give them a reason to
I know some VERY good looking guys and girls…and no1 approachs them etc…unless they show they are also interested etc. if you just ignore them…dont even look at them, would they be stupid enough to go to a random stranger who doesnt even seem interested?
dont act so innocent…when u know ur not. you want them to chase you and you try your best to make them
Naughty as much as i'd like to say you're full of crap, i have heard of it happening, when ur attached, its like girls (or guys) get this thing that.. "hey! he has a girl, there mus tbe something about him!" and also he might be givin off some vibe that attracts him to others..
Ok for a bit of clarity...it comes with the nature of my job...i work for charity and am in the streets all day...im one of those yellow bib people you see all day asking for donations all day...
One of the perks of the job is that you meet a lot of girls all day...for any male or female they will get more attention then they will get in any normal situation...i get propositioned all the time as do both girls i manage...
A lot of the time when you stop people to chat they flirt, may or may not sign up and you may keep in touch...i met my girlfriend on the job and a lot of girls though it infact...
However since deciding to be committed im still stopping females during the day...and it seems im getting propositioned by really really attractive girls ever since...
Before id be propositioned but not by girls of this calibre...and certainly not as often by such attractive girls...iv been waiting for a fit Iranian girl to come across and it just happens to be when im attached...the black girl had one of the most incredible figures iv ever seen...why didnt i see her a few weeks ago...
Being flirted and propositioned is part and parcel of my job and iv loved it for a long time...however right now id rather it didnt happen so often and if it did id like it to happen with girls who are easy to dismiss...
Just that first day...those girls were absolutely stunning...all of them...and then for the train and then my ex...it seemed like the whole world wants me to cheat...
Orpheus
Ok this has turned into a discussion about me and not the idea that the world makes life harder when your not single...
Iv met a lot of girls through this job...even my girlfriend was a girl i pitched, signed up and kept in touch with...
Charity is like any other form of face to face sales...it can be shallow...i did nightclub promotions which was even more shallow...
You will sign up genuine people all day but you will also get girls who stop for you cos they want to know you...im not acting as if im extraordinary...most boys enjoy that aspect of this job...flirting is one thing...asking me for my number...telling me im buff and suggesting we meet up is a bit more than idle small talk dont you think?...
Im not saying that i hate it...its one of the perks...its a nice ego boost throughout the day and naturally its nice when you eventually meet these girls...this Aussie guy used to get a few numbers every day...
Its ok when they are girls you can dismiss...its just in the last few days...the girls have been amazing...the black girl wanted to meet up...the iranian girl said she didnt want to talk about charity she just wanted to talk to me and the girl on the train...you dont tend to make small talk on a crowded train with people you dont know...
So all im saying is I wish this happened before when i was single rather than attacking me when i have to be good and disciplined...
These things never happened when i was single so why now?...
While it is true that an attached male is much more appealing than a single one....this is for reasons other than those you believe. Afterall, you said it yourself, some of those girls didn't even know you are attached.
Now...the attached male is appealing because he gives off a sense of security, confidence in himself and an air of being removed from the game of "flirtations". Not only does he present a challenge, he himself is the reward.
Muzna
Nice...maybe i do act a little differently to usual...
Mallika
If they knew i had a girl then it would be simple...they want to see if they can get me to cheat...its a challenge for them but thats another thread...happened to me before...girls who never noticed me started noticing me when i had a fit girl by my side...thats another problem ill deal with when girls find out im off the market...That problem is easy to explain...
In this case however the girls obviously dont know that i have a girlfriend...which makes my sudden luck good or bad depending on how its looked at difficult to explain...
Impulse
I never stated that i love my girlfriend...its early days...
And as for your other stupid comment about me being a weak person...if i was weak i would succumb to temptation not resist it...
God gave us instincts and its up to us whether to follow temptation...weakness isnt having temptation its succumbing to it...strength is resisting it...
You really do have a habit of making stupid comments...
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