Ever went to a "Modern" Pakistani wedding?

i can only speak for karachi because i have lived there. i know that there are alcohol suppliers in khi there are even 2 stores i know of in defence that sell alcohol in their back rooms. the only 2 restaurants i know in khi that serve alcohol are Pompei (an upscale italian restaurant, they have the best italian in the city and that isnt saying much since the others really suck) the second i forgot the name of but it is a very good Korean restaurant near II Chundrigar rd.

I think the only way you can obtain it legally is if you have a 5 star or better hotel because of the non-muslim folks that come there. even that had some debate going on so i dont really know exactly if there is any way you can obtain it legally.

that being said, most alcohol that comes into the country, gets in illegaly and for you to obtain it, either you must know the supplier or know people at the airport/customs to get u cleared and not check ur bags and if u dont know them personally, u gotta bribe them either with money or with the alcohol itself. funny how i know about all this and nothign about my finals next week!

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Even if alcohol is illegal in Pakistan, it's found all over the place. Even 14 year olds have access to booze these days.. forget booze.. even drugs.

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haram is haram ,,bus baat khatam

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Picasa Web Albums - Kristen - Pakistan

here is an example…sumorani posted this link in another tread. i thought it was appropriate for this one too.

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^^ i wanna go to such weddings? what i need to do in order to get in? Ladies....

hii, if i remember correct, u told that alcohol was served at ur wedding. i figured it took place out of pak, but it was in khi?
If i may ask were there that many non-muslim guests at ur wedding, that alcohol was served.

im jus wondering, if u dont want to answer it ok ;)

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^no there werent many non muslims

That sounds disgusting. I'm sure the real stuff tastes better naaaa :~)

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to the OP: if u're looking for masala...u can find it in your kitchen cabinet.

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bride and groom kiss - , ALMOST..somebody stopped them..loll

dance together, - yea...in almost every wedding I have been to

lots of "unmarried" couples, - yea..sene it few times...its queit normal actually

open bar, - no

skimpy outfits, OH YEAAA..they were almost...bollywood clothes hmm :O

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in our families....nothing of that sort happens... males have their own entrance and females have their own... on wedding day, groom sits on male side and bride on female side.. on male's side..we start off with talawat and hamd o sana. Later on groom goes to the female side where he sits with the female... and families take pictures standing behind the married couple and stuff...

joota churai, doodh pilaai and all these non-sense stuff too..but i guess this stuff is being done for sucha long time.. so its all good...but dancing to door ki baat ...males and females normally have different sections to sit... only at the end of the nights when guests are gone.. close relatives can meet in any of the men or ladies section..

no dancing, no bar and stuff, no non-alcoholic shampaigne, kissing etc... thats disturbing.

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^it's fine however you guys do it. obviously every family has their own traditions. but i think its wrong to call jootha chupai and dood pilai nonsense. its an important tradition in many pakistani muslim families like mine and i definitely do not consider it nonsense even though it's not an islamic tradition. it's just something that brings joy and happiness to my family so we have it at every wedding and think its a great part of our weddings. however, i see your point of view but just think its wrong that someone would call it nonsense.

Most of the weddings I've been to that had open bars and super fashionably clad guests and dance floors were in Lahore and Karachi. If anything, the Pakistani (and Indian Muslim) weddings I've been to in the US/UK were more generally more conservative than the ones in Pakistan itself. I've even been to weddings here that were segregated by gender...something I have yet to see in Pakistan.