I just read Nancy’s Firday My Secret Garden.After reading that book..its was like boom..I never thought what women had in their minds..It was fun to read but tell you the truth..I have started to look women in a different way ..like media always portrays Men’s Sexual desire it might be through rape scenes , Teasing women but ever thought of Women seuxal desires, womens desire for love,Lust for sex? You get the complete picture of what women think of men.what they want and what men always think that i cant understand what women want.I guees this book by Nancy Friday is a true picture of Women Desire’s..We men always think women as Baby Machines..to be very honest We all here have this kind of mentality..we always think that women are only to produce babies and then help our Children by ‘Our’ children i mean Husband always thinks that the babies are his property and wife is just to support them.even when husband and wife marriage doest go smooth and it comes to end .Men always Claim children their own property.Men always think that we go and earn money to support our family.When we come home wife should give them food and stuff ..and then she should be ready for bed.I might be wrong or i might be from different school of thought..But we never think of women.their Desire for love..in true sense..I might have diverted from my topiic …but its kind of interelated..Hope to see your comments..Married women can tell better give their views on this thread..
whats your opinion?
women crave sex as much as men do, and therefore all women are latent nymphos?
or,
men need to change the way they view women as baby machines and/or sex objects?
I think women do have sexual fantasies but they just can't share them with their partners that easily.
You are WRONG when you say "We men always think women as Baby Machines"
That depends on individuals, i don't really think any educated man considers his wife as a baby machine, at least not in 21st century.
Here's a better suggestion. Instead of seeing them as baby-making machines (most modernized desis don't, i think), or as beings with sexual thoughts/desires...
How about just see them as humans? You know, like no different than your male college buddies.
For girls whether they are horny or not…admittance of it puts them in the slutty category…girls gossip about how dirty they are and men will assume that they can get an easy lay…desis especially are like this…A girl can never be respectable yet be sexually active…
And to be honest although i agree that men no longer view women as baby making machines…men still tend to be more about themselves when physical with their women…not to go into detail but men tend to expect certain acts which they dont intend on doing the same themsleves…priority should be satisfaction of their partners emotional and physical needs…but sometimes desis tend to be more focused on themselves…
Lajawab...it doesnt make you a nymphomaniac if you have sexual desire...women just like us have desires...so try not to speak so negatively about 'nymphomaniacs'...
Sex is something to be enjoyed...and just like men gain enjoyment from it and expect their emotional and physical needs fulfilled...so do women...so the sooner men realise that women do have expectations in the bedroom the better lovers they become...
Its just in desi society...women cant say they have fantasies...or talk about sex openly becuase of the negative lables which become attached to such girls...
Some girls do deserve these labels and are hos...but hey just recognise that women just like us have needs to...
