Re: Ever heard of this Rasam?
kiya kiya rasmein hain...I don't believe this! I'd really like 2 know if these senseless rasmein or what ya call it was practised at the time of our prophet (saw).
you stay at the brides house with your bride, because you love her and she wants to spend the last days with her family, not because this is a tradition in our culture and we have to fulfill this rassam, what is this?
The bride stays after the walima for 1 week at her parents house, the groom doesn't come along, what is that? Isliye shaadi ki hai? Yaan pehle ruksathi karni hai, phir bride ko dekhna, milna, blablabla, to nikah/shaadi kisliye ki hai?
It shouldn't be Rukhsati, it should be Rukh Saathi...
Culture or rassmon ne to barbaad kiya hai Dunya ko...
Ek Afghani rassam hai, the husband takes a tissue and takes the hymen of his whife as a proof of virginity and shows it to his family members the next day, now what the hell is this, tell me!!!?