Re: Events - I sooo don’t get this new trend!
This is brilliant. Do rukhsati and mehndi combined. And walima later. Waise bhi, there is no fun in rukhsati anyway. Make sure you have this in someone’s house or a farmhouse though Ill get you the names of some. They dont have 10 pm curfew cos this way, you can have lots of dancing and then time enough for leaving.
yes ladies really not in my hands .. if it was .. im sticking to the mehndi+nikkah same day .. baraat and valima .. so 3 events in total .. basically 3 Grand events … thts where my parents and his parents have a thingy u knw .. each event is going so be sooo cost-influenced that we thought of having two big events instead and thts where this whole discussion started. Plus my fiance thinks that 3 events is too much cuz on their side the dholkis and all start like 2 weeks in advance and he’d be going crazy till the time the main events arrive LOL
another idea came to my mind was to have a “rukhsati” and “valima” and have all the hala gula everyone wants (like we have on mehndis) on the day of the rukhsati … like have a dance floor made so that all the aunties can shake it there and not make a fuss of not having a mehndi
its so funny just by changing the names of the events .. it sounds like a new idea
sigh … now that i have given it a thought - if I have one big mehndi+nikkah+rukhsati and one reception or valima .. I will wear red on the first day .. and I am going for a not-so-traditional look anyways so I guess I can work it out .. the reception I’ll have will be supported be a light dress ..
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