There were Two mates knowing each other. They were not close friends enough to share any secret among them. One of the guy was involved in a girl, the other guy felt the intensity to which he was emotionally involved in herl…
it was just an one-sided worship! Every one next to him knows the passion of love. So it was not a secret to strangers! …
Girl was not involved. Although she had an idea but she did not took any decision or may be she was waiting for his proposal to come through his parents; guy was sincere and was working on the proposing process to her.
On the other side, other guy was working keenly and secretively on the same girl… no one knew what he was doing, all that time he was nice to the other guy but showed him nothing…
One day there was an announcement about his engagement in public with the same girl… later they got married…living close to the other guy who loved her first …
My question is, will you propose a girl or a guy knowing well that he / she is being liked by another person?
How the – one can ruin some one’s life like this!!! No matter if that was an one sided love or what ever … one should have some ethics …especially when you are going to propose and know if some one already like the same person…
There was no time factor involved in that case, and she like him yes, but she did not love him or may be she did... She was married other guy because of her family...
but the question is not about girl:
The other guy who know it all, should not propose and betray his friend at that stage!!!
The other guy is smart he kept his feelings to himself and also he got there first. Moreover, the girl accepted the offer there is nothing wrong with that guy and the girl.
Your other friend, I would suggest him to move on and next time just say to the girl that you love her. I do feel bad for him so you should be a good friend give him comfort and help him to move on.
GUY one who was in Love with Gal and Guy Two Knew it… And Guy Two Also In Love with that Gal and Guy one Never Knew it…
GAL is not sure abt Both of them… And She is Waiting For Proposal… Both of them are Almsot same fot her…
NOW… GUY TWO proposed Her First and.. They Got Married… So.. it was His Wisdom and Courage … One Some one Love some.. they should Never wait… They should Say it Straight away.. other wise.. there is Big Chance for loss…
in ^ case I wont Blame GUY TWO and wont Charge him for BETRAY…
If GUY one had proposed Earlier May be.. He would Be accepted by the gal…
NOW… TURN the Case A bit Diff… Guy One is in LOVE with some Gal… Guy Two is not… Guy TWO know that Guy One is in Love with that gal… He Know the Intensity of Love of GUY ONE as well… and He Went and Proposed that Gal …
In this case.. offcourse I would Blame him… Stealing Someone Love Intentionlay is a very big CRIME to me… And if He did it Delebretley Belive me… He wont be Happy either IN his life…
hmmm I think it was completely upto the girl and if she was aware of the other guy's feeling and she liked him, she wouldnt have said yes to the other guy. Apprently, she didnt like him and picked the guy she liked. Or u can blame the first guy, why didnt he purpose to her formally? Why didnt he explain to her that hes working on it? The thing is, if she really wanted to get with the first guy, she would have waited.
If i was in this position, as in I was the second girl and I knew some other girl liked the guy, I would first make sure that the guy doesnt like the other girl. If he doesnt, then hell yea i would go for it! But if the guy likes the other girl and theres a thing going on between them, then offcourse not.
I would have not proposed to the girl (not in love with me) if she was loved by any person, dost kee to baat hee aur hai.
Note:- Bracketed words are very important.
due to this very risk it's not just ethically but also religously taught wrong to propose to a person while being aware of another proposal or intention to propose pending before.
