Re: etiquette question
I agree with Background check go for em.
I sometimes clean up to help mum out esp when some guests are comin oover.. lekin when they are here, they make so much noise and mess i.e. the kids that when it comes to eating .. the kids dont have manners etc at the table and i end up eating alone cos its annoying accompnying the guests and eat with them .. lekin they cant decide what to eat …
another thing like you observed.. when they come they do panga with anything and everything… especially the gadgets ..you know the electrical stuff ..tv, computer .. and they are circling the whole house ..top to bottom looking for sometyhing to destroy …
so we shud have security checks.. alternatively i ve thought of a plan ..lil evil lekin i think it shud work.. that we keep a stun gun .. when any of the kids mess around or damage something ..just stunn em ..so next time they remeber not to come with their mummys and daddys and they are gonna stay home and play like good boys and girls with their own toys … oh another thing.. i hava lil baby sis… so when we have these guests… the kids that come with themm .. end up liking my lil sis k toys and they just either rob em or they cry their eyes out to their parents and they wana take the toy home.. and this way .. now my sis doesnt have that many toys as to before ..i blame the bad manners and not teaching / controlling the kids when at someones house .. ON PARENTS !!!
Do you fall in the above …? 
… i didnt mean YOU 