I was wondering is it good etiquette to do a background and reference check on my guests before inviting them over at my place to make sure that they and their kids are well trained to be good guests ?
They come and check my closets and want to see what is in my refrigerator, nadeeday loug.
And then their kids, they run around the house and play like their moms and dads do not let them play around in their own homes.
Why can’t people train their kids ?
What do you think about this idea that I should hire a couple of security guards to keep the guests and their kids in check ?
Or should I just live a lonely life and do not invite anybody so that my home stays they way I want it to be ?
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Those of you who think I am being meanie or mocking some one are not my fraaands and are jealous me.
I sometimes clean up to help mum out esp when some guests are comin oover.. lekin when they are here, they make so much noise and mess i.e. the kids that when it comes to eating .. the kids dont have manners etc at the table and i end up eating alone cos its annoying accompnying the guests and eat with them .. lekin they cant decide what to eat …
another thing like you observed.. when they come they do panga with anything and everything… especially the gadgets ..you know the electrical stuff ..tv, computer .. and they are circling the whole house ..top to bottom looking for sometyhing to destroy …
so we shud have security checks.. alternatively i ve thought of a plan ..lil evil lekin i think it shud work.. that we keep a stun gun .. when any of the kids mess around or damage something ..just stunn em ..so next time they remeber not to come with their mummys and daddys and they are gonna stay home and play like good boys and girls with their own toys … oh another thing.. i hava lil baby sis… so when we have these guests… the kids that come with themm .. end up liking my lil sis k toys and they just either rob em or they cry their eyes out to their parents and they wana take the toy home.. and this way .. now my sis doesnt have that many toys as to before ..i blame the bad manners and not teaching / controlling the kids when at someones house .. ON PARENTS !!!
fbi - But yeahhh I HATE it when kids come and start crying when they’re about they leave because they want to take the toys OR even worse, if I’m on my laptop they keep complaining to their parents that they ‘wanna play games on the laptop’ - I mean FGS, its MY laptop, not for ur grimey greasy little hands to ruin it.
And even worse… some of these little brats go to the extent of taking control of the remote control in MY house wanting to watch the tv programmes that THEY like. I’m like excuse me??? And a couple of times some of them have deleted programmes that I had recorded, and was yet to watch, or like awesome episodes of OTH that I had saved - grh.
I would say, just don’t invite people with kids over, unless the kid has not yet learnt to crawl or walk.
I have never had guests checking my Closets but yep refregirator is ok I guess.unko bhook lage hai toh jo khaana hai khaa lain :)
& Kids are ok too.Fun to have around the house.We cant really expect them to sit at one place like the adults now can we.
As for them destroying stuff you simply have to tell them to stop.
agar narmi sey na sunain toh thora sa daant dain .Simple as that.
& If they want to take toys of your siblings or kids at home then unkey apney parents hain mana kerney ke liye why do you have to worry abut that.
awwww LOL. I don’t mind having guests, but they should remember they’re in someone else home and treat it like they would like their home to be treated. And as for the little kids, mehhh as long as my stuffs out of their reach it’s all good
… i didnt mean YOU 
But yeahhh I HATE it when kids come and start crying when they’re about they leave because they want to take the toys 
I would say, just don’t invite people with kids over, unless the kid has not yet learnt to crawl or walk. 
