Ethics or Friendship...

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:17pm

which one is more important for you??/

I mean if you are in a situation where your friend is doing something that is considered to be unethical, and asks you for help?

what would you do?

Shak · October 13, 2011, 9:18pm

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I would ask I. Smile to make a thread

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:19pm

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I already have made one answerrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

Shak · October 13, 2011, 9:21pm

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I have always told my friends off and vice versa if there was anything any of us did wrong. What is wrong is wrong.

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:26pm

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Admitting is a separate issue:mad:

choose 1 option

Yes will help him/her.
Refuse to help.
Will stop them.
will let them do but wouldn’t be involved in anything myself.

Shak · October 13, 2011, 9:41pm

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At the you cannot babysit people if they refuse to listen to you. I only advice someone if I know they are listening to me and will atleast take my advice into consideration but if someone chooses to go a certain way only they are responsible for their consequences and that is always important to let them know.

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:43pm

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:k:

okay tell me one more think have you ever done something that you feel was unethical?

Jhanjariya · October 13, 2011, 9:48pm

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i would say 2&4 mixed together

CEO1 · October 13, 2011, 9:49pm

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My friends know my stance when it comes to almost anything. I wont do anything wrong or what I feel is unethical. Don’t include me in any process that involves me. etc. Something that is wrong is wrong. Whether it is my dad or some random stranger.

Shak · October 13, 2011, 9:50pm

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Not speak to one of my friends for months on, only to realise I made a mistake, gladly I have rectified that now

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:51pm

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good

but what if the person is someone whom you can’t refuse but his unethical deed is wicked enough to destroy someone’s life?

Shak · October 13, 2011, 9:52pm

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Then that person is not worth it frankly. And if he or she is worth it then I would disassociate myself from their action(s)

Jhanjariya · October 13, 2011, 9:52pm

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i have given up 2 really good friends before because of something like this.. i can do it again :hinna:

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:53pm

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good :k:

What if your refusal or denial to help them cause you some monetary or emotional loss?

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:54pm

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very good…staying away from friends without any reason isn’t good

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:56pm

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hmmm what about emotional loss involved in disassociating yourself from them…will be able to handle things?

aww thats very brave of you :k:
and Allah na karay ke dobara aisa moqa aaye

CEO1 · October 13, 2011, 9:57pm

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We cant give up on our iman. No matter what the situation. People give their lives for such causes.

I am grown man and rely on myself financially. Emotional is something that is internal and can only control it to a certain extent.

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 9:59pm

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Ditto:k:
This (the bold one) is the most beautiful line of today’s date that i have read :k:

sarmad786 · October 13, 2011, 9:59pm

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will try my best to stop him… !!

Innocent_Smile · October 13, 2011, 10:01pm

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that is good. have you ever been in such a situation? in general sense…like some friend told you to do something that you thought was unethical?