How it affects your life, when you consider some one your friend and hence do share things with them, considering they will keep the secret and will never share it with anybody, but at the back your every thing is being shared. What you call these types of people?
Are they being able to call as friends? And how about those who do like to listen these stories and do enjoy and later make fun? What you call these low life, low value and fraud people? One hand they pretense the best friend but in actual are putting in knife at your back!
People must have some ethics of life, some manner and some respect for others. They should not pose like a low life people of street, and those who do listen should also have some family morals and ethics, and must avoid to listen and should correct others instead enjoying…
You must be hurting by doing all these … and to hurt some one and to break some one’s trust is smoothing which is unforgiving… you never know life can bring you in the same circumstances, so beware if some will ask Allah for payback… life is short, enjoy and respect other’s feelings and sentiment, don’t laugh at others with wide open mouth…stop back biting…
Aww that was nice, and so true...those ppl who backbite, and who r two-faced...God will deal with them in His own ways. It's hard to trust ppl once ur trust has been broken...i think it's worse when ur friend breaks ur trust, than when ur partner does. And, no, i don't think u can call those ppl ur friends...best to cut them out of ur life.
Ur rite, everyone has their own ethics...sometimes, i think ppl who r like that have some deep issues u know...something in their life must really be bothering them...and they take it out on others. And sometimes i think that it comes from jealousy. Others do it to show off and "look good" in front of others at ur expense. It's totally wrong to put down anyone, esp. behind their back.
Life *is *too short to worry about this also...u get hurt but u will learn to trust again, it takes time and patience. And u can't change others, all u can do is change urself and try to be ur best...just trust urself, that's the most important trust in my opinion.
KRD,
Thanks for understanding and explaining further that I couldn’t express…
I don’t know what they get after doing all these while making someone’s life a living hell, and then laughing on him, … I don’t know what they get doing all these. At least one can’t expect this from a ‘friend’ though; they are obviously disgrace to be called as friends…
People usually keep so many secrets of their friends, but fine people never share them with others, regardless the fact how close you could be with other, but they can never think to betray and let the secrets out… This is against human rules, ethics and decency to make it known on back.
At least people must think what they are doing, and what the consequence will be. And iff they really desire to abuse a person then do it in personal, and if they have misunderstandings then must be cleared. Without discussion I don’t think any one can examine the heart of a person, and on the basis of one sided conclusion, making of a story and then publishing it; is just impolite. At least have some ethics, some etiquettes, some shame, … and even if they have no respect for a person then at least beware of God. Making some one cry for the unethical behavior is a sin.
I don’t think one can trust anymore to any one, if trusting results in such a misery
aray this is nothing, I have seen bigger jerks than this, aisay bhi baaz kameenay zalil log hotay haiN, who will call you brother and still will back-stab you, leave alone friendship. when ppl dont spare brothers, how can we blame the ones who do that with friends?
Bus Allah khair karay, Qayamat ki nishaniyaN haiN.
very true, these things happens a lot now a days. Its like a second nature of people around. They would act in the beginning as if they can keep the things to themselves forever, but once u spit out everything they take advantage of it and use it against you.
Dada abba i have been victim of that ONCE and after that i am not capable of trusting anyone that easily. I take my time in knowing people and letting them know abut myself b/c of which people then talk about me that i am very proud or have an attitude prob just b/c i keep things to myself and am reserve person out in a world.
I think with me aik chout hi qaffi houtti hai samajhnay kay liyeh....bad things happens here and there....who can listen to me and not share with ANYONE and yet still help me out in best interest of me is only Allah!