how often and how much does one care about one’s spouse?
any ideas of spicing up the love life - without mere intimate physicality?
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A lot. Especially, in normal marriages, males care a lot about their ladies initially. Ladies have a different agenda programmed in them. After they are happy with the security of their marriage and having a few children, they don’t care about their better half unless the security of the marriage is at stake. Due to the selfish nature of most desi ladies, the only thing they care about after marriage is their own happiness.
The only idea of spicing up the love life is to stay away from marriage as long as the love lasts.
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jump on him, kiss him all over
learn to be best friends
and keep challenging each other.
don't become dumb
intelligence is sexy
and as far as how much does one care about their spouse,
it depends on the marriage.
but if two people love each other, i do think it's possible to adore each other forever
i miss him :(
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spicing up the love life needs imagination and anything tat makes u both happy is fine.
not everyone hav da same idea of exciting moments together.
sometimes juz doing da things u did before da kids came along is enuff to bring back da romantic memories and mood ;)
witchdr are talkin thru experience? :D
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witchdr are talkin thru experience? :D
Hi Nisa! Selamat sore. Apa Kabar. Well! Someone has to counter-strike the mentality displayed here :D. We desis grow up in similar atmosphere. So if men are so bad, the women have to be at least equally bad if not worse. Courageous and brave people stand up and accept their mistakes and make and effort not to do it again. Most of the ladies here do not see any problem in themselves. That is a recipe to self destruction. Take responsibility of what state you are in and try to improve from there. That should be the motto for everyone. God definitely help those who try.
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I am perfect…ly mesed up 
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i know wat u mean :D... unfortunately we humans fail miserably when it comes to taking a 360 degrees view of a point. blame it on our desi backround? hehe... back to square one
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*yawn yawn................ come again?
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…buy him new Paris Hilton album? 
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Exactly. I did that for the same reason. :D
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witch dr... another point of view is that guys only show that they care .. actually they do not .
where as gurls do care but they do not show that much ..
there's where the confusion starts ...,
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where as gurls do care but they do not show that much ..
there's where the confusion starts ...,
Niyal, so there is hyprocracy on both the sides. Which one is better? Neither. I actually don't agree completely with the above. There is a lot more than what meets the eyes.
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when did i say that men were better than women or vice versa .. all i said was the difference in approach towards the same direction 
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Caring about one's spouse is something that is an every day thing and every moment thing. It's about respect in everything you do and say, being mindful and aware of the other's feelings and needs. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and don't say "I love you" everyday like we used to. But we actually love eachother even more than ever. It's not the words that matter but the actions.
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how very bitter!
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why do all of your threads sound like c/p from a women's journo? hmm...
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My error in judgement!
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but then you never got my point :(