A SCENERIO! LETS DISCUSS and analyze A COMMON EVERY DAY SCENE!.
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.i am sure hum main se buhut loog, rooz aisay haalaat aur aisi situation ka samna kerrtey hain:) Sab ghar main tv dekh rahain hain..ek maa apnay bachoon k saath..lets just say they r watching a movie....Jo bhii ..it doesnt matter kiya dekh rahain hain . khair..achanak ...DOor pe Koi ata hai...and darwazay pe dastak hoti hai...BAchoon ki ami ek ko kehtii hain..;beta darwaza kholo jakay dkehoo kaun aya.. the kid goes like , ami Abhi tu mainnay apna room saaf kiya hai, i am extremely tired kisi aur ko keh dein na " dosra beta bolta hai., "mom , Nope dont even think about sending me ...u always do this to me ..others always come up with excuses and i'm the one who ends up doing all the work. This time i aint going".. baat uski bhi sahi thii..khair.. unki ami teesray k taraf dekhti hi hain tu he starts singing.."la la la.....which gives her a hint taht he's not gonna go..khair disappoint ho ker jab woh khud derwaza kholnay k liyee uthnay lagti hain tu the fourth kid goes like MOm wait ..app rukain i will go.. Khair he goes ( movie gets paused)and opens the door.. ..jo door pe hota hai unse milta hai...salam kerta hai and den unka haal puchta hai and then the person that was at the door had to return their pan that he she borrowed. she returns and leaves.. Then woh bacha 5 mins baad aakar Tv wapis dekhnay lagta hai..:) MY QUESTION TO U ALL IS :..k WHAT IS THE POINT OF STORY>???
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AnywaYS aisay haalat ka samna hum loog rooz kertey hain..jaisay Cricket game sab friends khail rahain hotay hahin and hum loog game end ker deytay hain just coz her baar ek hi banda ball leney jataa hai and woh bhi becahara tang ajata hai jaa jaa kay... ...kahin per bhi insaan hoo..equaltiy nahi hotii...ismain nuqsaan kiska hai ??kabhi humne socha hai hai?hum loog kabhi apnay chotay se chotay situation ko analyze nahi ekrtey ..agar kerain tu hum janaain k we can learn so much ..Her situation se kuch na kuch sabaq milta hai..
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MY REQUEST TO U ALL...Plz read the story and try to answer my question ..AND THEN I will show my WORK HERE.. DUNIYA Ko ek BAAAAR Merii NAZAR SE DEkHAIN..ek DOSRSAY perspective(nazariye) SE:)..shayad kuch ki zindagi badal jaaye..:)
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the point of the story is disrespect your mother who woke up in the night when you were crying, when she was tired and had no sleep, but she was taking care of you, changing your diapers, giving you food and now you come up with, I'm so tired to walk to the door - which just takes 2 seconds - after I cleaned my room...
Amen
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NOPE!!!!...
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anyywas..ONE of the kids did go open the door..agar 3 of them weren't in the mood ..the fourth one did go..khair..dats not the point of the story..I will show my perspective soon..
app kisi bhi game ko lay lain, football, cricket, ...kissi bhi cheez ko lain lainkids fight over stupid things..chotii se chotii baat pe.. sometimes they fight k mom i wanna sit at the front seat why does this bro/sis of mines always sit..her jagah aisay scene hotay hain...and hum nazar andaaz kertey hain..dere's s mcuh behind one scene..khair..im just waiting for everyone to read it..then i will post my answer...
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Come on people..hum loog fazooll Topics jin ka koi point nahi unpe reply ekrtey hain..and JAB real LIFE ki baat chaltii hai..sab peechay hojatay hain..thIS IS LIFE AND WE NEED TO FACE The realities of it..!!!we face them everyday..WE NEED TO ANALYZE THEM!
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Here's my answer:)
** Question: What is the point of the story? **
Lets do the calculations For the child who received the guests:
**
Islamic perspective.**
1.he got respect in his mother's eyes.
2.he got respect infront of Allah and His mercy. ( for ex: compare to others who didnt go, he might also get rewarded for it as Alalh may save himn from the upcoming incident or so. As Allah is all mercyful and All knowing)
3. For every step that he took towards the door and back to the room, he hopefully got alot of sawab for it.(number of steps=number of sawabs)
"If a person looks with love at his parents, God writes in his favor the reward equal to the performance of one Hajj."
[Someone asked, "will this promise be good if one looks at his parents one hundred times a day?" The Holy Prophet (pbuh) replied, "even if one does so a hundred thousand times a day, God gives the reward accordingly."]
he got sawab for listening to his mom, and not agruing back.
"He who wishes to enter Paradise through its best door must please his parents."Sayign of Prphpet Mohammad(PBUH)Dua from his mom. ( this is a moment when a dua comes naturally out and that too from the bottom of her heart)
"Paradise lies under the feet of the mother.",saying of the Prophet Mohammad(PBUH)
6.Greeting the guest by saying "salam" gave him even more sawab. (paying salam or greeting someone is not just a custom, it is worth a lot in Islam)
Abu Hurayrah (RA) related that a man passed by the Messenger of Allaah (SAW) whilst he was sitting with some others, and said “Salaam ‘alaykum (peace be upon you).” The Prophet (SAW) said, “[He will have] ten hasanaat (rewards).” Another man passed by and said “Salaam ‘alaykum wa rahmat-Allaah (peace be upon you and the mercy of Allaah).” The Prophet (SAW) said, “[He will have] twenty hasanaat.” Another man passed by and said “Salaam ‘alaykum wa rahmat-Allaahi wa barakaatuhu (peace be upon you and the mercy of Allaah and His blessings).” The Prophet (SAW) said, “[He will have] thirty hasanaat.” [Nasaai]
- Asking for his guest's well being(hospitality) is another sawab.
"Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should be hospitable with his or her guests." Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Malik, al-Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah, al-Darimi, and Ahmad.
...Therefore plenty of a sawab in just 5 minutes.
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Kambal short ker ke bata do gi plz? Itna lamba lecture nahin parhaa jata :(
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Scientific Perspective:
- Heart rate increased. it was a good exercise. ( if a person do all the chores of their parents and look after them.imagine how healthy they can be)
- Regular such activities can also help balance the hormones or help in maintaining the hormonic level. (no wonder why people lived for over 200 yrs in the past centruy). ( my family doc said to me i need to exercise eventhough i am very slim..she said it's good for my hormones)
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what did others get*:????
Islamic Perspective
1. less respect (infront of their Lord and their mother)
It is believed that the very first words that have been written on the The Heavenly Preserved Tablet Lauh-e-mehfuz are as follows:
"I am God, and there is no deity except Me. I am pleased with those with whom their parents are pleased, and I am displeased with those with whom their parents are displeased."
2.A lot of gunnah(sinning) for disrespecting their mom.
"God has commanded that if anybody prays equal to the invocations performed by the prophets, such prayers will do no good if that person has been cursed by his or her parents." (according to one hadith)
3.More Sins for each argument. ( Allah can be displeased if u even use any harsh word with them.
"Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or more attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say, "my Lord! bestow on them Thy Mercy, even as they cherished me in childhood." (Quran 17: 23,24)
According to great great grandson of the Prophet (PBUH) said that Ali (A.S.) quoted that "disobedience to parents is a major sin." "if a person looks at the face of his or her parents with wrathful eyes, despite the fact that injustice was done to him or her by the parents, his or her salah (prayer) will not be accepted by God."
Other societal disadvantage:
-They got the worst punishment. The punishment of waiting.( i believe k intezaar se bardi koi saza nahi)
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**REFERENCES:
http://www.islamfortoday.com/akhtar01.htm
http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=4814&CATE=34
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LOl..MKD:)..>KNOwELDGE ki baatein boring hi hotii hain:P....lol...merii research thi..lol....i will try to shorten it ...baad main abhi asar ki namaz pardh aoon:P
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Isnpired by:P..MOtehr teresa:P
People are often unreasonable,
illogical and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind,
People may accuse you
of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be Kind anyway.
If you are successful,
you will win some false friends and
some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank,people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building,
someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway
If you find serenity and happiness,
they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today,
people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have,
and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.
You see, in the final analysis.
it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.
(Mother Teresa)
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FOR M_K_D!
..STORY...BOTTOM LINE ..noone went to open the door except for one kid coz otehrs were busy watching a movie.
**QUESTION ?what did he get by listening to his mom?
- answer: ISlamic PErspective: 1** For every step towards the door..= # of STEPS x sawaab
- guest ko salam kiya ( salam kerney k 10 sawab) 3) allahhafiz kehney k alag sawab ..mehmaan kaa haal puchnay k alag..
- gained respect in his mother's eyes.
- gained Respect Allah k haan:) ( as readers we literally were so proud of that bacha)..
Add all that sawab ...calculation khud kerlena...
**
SCIENTIFIC PERSPECTIVE...**
Uski exercise hogayii..jaisi bhi exercise ho its good for our body, chahyee walk hi khaali koi kyn na keray..trust me..doc's kehtey hain:)
**
FOR THOsE WHO didnt listen to their mOM**
aur dosrii taraf ...unki maa k dilse baduwayain tu nikali hongi ..coz merey dil se pyaar tu nikla nahi une bachoon k liyee jinhon ne darwaza nahi khola....and dher sara gunnah bhii....and becharon ko waisya bhi intezaar kerna aprdha coz they had to pause the movie ..intezaar is painful:P
SIRF POINT meRA YEH THA K HUM LOOOGON KO NAHI MALOOM HUM 5 mins k ander kitni naikiyaan kamanay ka moqa khoo deytay hain aur 5 MIns main humain pata bhi nahi hota itnay saray gunnah ker leytay hain woh bhi apni ZABAN k galat istemaal se:P...so lets b careful and patient:)..and huemesha naiki kerney main pehl kerain ...humara hi bhala hai scientifically and islamically:)
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Awww, obedient child 
Usay mama ne dua di 
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Isnpired by:P..MOtehr teresa:P
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered; Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, People may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be Kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank,people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; Build anyway
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you've got anyway.
You see, in the final analysis. it is between you and God; It was never between you and them anyway.
(Mother Teresa)
Very inspirational :)
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lol.gandii bachhii:P
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araam keroo mama ki dua..u need rest:)..apna khayal rakha keroo:)..