Serious question…how do you establish boundaries with in-laws who ask you incredibly personal and nosy questions every single time they get you alone?
With friends and family, I can tell them to shut up and mind their own business ; can’t exactly do that with my in laws.
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It's simple, you tell them your not comfortable answering the question.
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If someone want to complicate things, even picking up cup and drinking Tea is complicated 
else, life is easy…
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It's simple, you tell them your not comfortable answering the question.
Yeah, I try to do the passive aggressive thing by not answering but she's just like "hain? hain?"
Okay I'll admit, I'm kind of a wussy.....anyone else I can tell them to not ask me but wiht her....I can't be that blunt.
that and she ahs a crappy habit of twisting words around, that's why I try to say as little as possible to her and only talk in front of others...never alone.
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Ohhhh So your username is ironic then. I get it now. :-p
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^darnit…I googled ur signature thinking its a movie/tv quote…and the first thing was ur profile 
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LOL, yeah, it's a partyslim original:-p
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haha ncie. now is that pizza pie or apple/cherry/chocolate/lemon pie...(i hope to God its only one of those two :p )
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lemon meringue pie ftw
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Ask them the same type of questions....
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Ask them the same type of questions....
^^lo sone pe abhaaga
jiski billi usika khamba noche ...something like that
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^^lo sone pe abhaaga
jiski billi usika khamba noche ...something like that
Stop butchering Urdu idioms/proverbs...........KKF might get a heart attack.......don't you care for others' well being??
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Just pretend you didnt hear them and walk away
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just smile and change topic?