Serious question…how do you establish boundaries with in-laws who ask you incredibly personal and nosy questions every single time they get you alone?
With friends and family, I can tell them to shut up and mind their own business ; can’t exactly do that with my in laws.
sarab
June 13, 2011, 4:18pm
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It’s simple, you tell them your not comfortable answering the question.
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If someone want to complicate things, even picking up cup and drinking Tea is complicated
else, life is easy…
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Yeah, I try to do the passive aggressive thing by not answering but she’s just like “hain? hain?”
Okay I’ll admit, I’m kind of a wussy…anyone else I can tell them to not ask me but wiht her…I can’t be that blunt.
that and she ahs a crappy habit of twisting words around, that’s why I try to say as little as possible to her and only talk in front of others…never alone.
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Ohhhh So your username is ironic then. I get it now. :-p
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^darnit…I googled ur signature thinking its a movie/tv quote…and the first thing was ur profile
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LOL, yeah, it’s a partyslim original:-p
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haha ncie. now is that pizza pie or apple/cherry/chocolate/lemon pie…(i hope to God its only one of those two )
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lemon meringue pie ftw
Nutwer
June 13, 2011, 5:15pm
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Ask them the same type of questions…
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^^lo sone pe abhaaga
jiski billi usika khamba noche …something like that
NomiCA
June 13, 2011, 5:53pm
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Stop butchering Urdu idioms/proverbs…KKF might get a heart attack…don’t you care for others’ well being??
Reha
June 13, 2011, 5:54pm
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Just pretend you didnt hear them and walk away
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just smile and change topic?