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I think I got what you tried to convey and I think I agree with you.
Thanks Aisha.
I mean Who wants to be with some one who has been an easily available commodity and has been rejected by half of the town..
Pls those "sent out" trips what do you know what she has been collecting?? ITs not like buying a show.. its a guy and girls together..
What if she is still in touch with those dudes.. since they seem so nice to them daughter and mum.. Dudes who rejected her as wife and want her as... well...escort...
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You know what PM your thread reminds of those aunties I have seen myself who prospect their daughters to guys who go to study abroad and then come back home. Let us say they go to UK and come back to Dubai, I personally know this aunty who was after this guy and was literally begging him to marry her daughter. She had the whole community annoyed and she forced her daughter to talk to his mom and everything and do certain things and she forced her husband to keep stalking the guy's dad around mosque etc and talk about his daughter. How embarrassing and shameful.
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Why do you assume that this girl is "free" or "half of the guys in a room would know her" or "her mom is pimping her out"?
I dont get the conversation that transpired between you and the mom, but if the mom was being encouraging of the two of you, it doesn't mean she's pimping you out. How do you know the girl didn't have a crush on you, told her mom, and her mom was just nudging the conversation along?
It is a parents job to encourage mating, eventually. That doesn't mean this mom is taking her daughter to everyone's door and saying "Hey, I'll hand her over to you for 10 bucks".
You make it sound so cheap - it might have been totally benign.
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Monk dude- see where your coming from.
Some People are indeed desperate and once they think have found some 'good/seeda saada/green card holder' guy who maybe a incy bit fond of thier daughter. Mothers do start acting like friends to thier daughters teamworking in order to 'pull' the guy.
Little do the mothers know...us guys are not quite yet on the same wavelength ;)
Thanks Aisha.
I mean Who wants to be with some one who has been an easily available commodity and has been rejected by half of the town.. Pls those "sent out" trips what do you know what she has been collecting?? ITs not like buying a show.. its a guy and girls together.. What if she is still in touch with those dudes.. since they seem so nice to them daughter and mum.. Dudes who rejected her as wife and want her as... well...escort...
Yeah this is what I don't get. When you go rishta hunting, please do realize, the girls you propose to might have gotten 20 proposals before you came along. Would you hold that against them? No. But if their family INITIATED a couple of proposals before you, then you would hold that against them? You're basically saying that a woman's family should not be proactive about looking for a match for their daughter, which is just wrong.
Now, Aisha's description above is silly, but what you're describing..I mean you're assuming they approach other guys like they approached YOU. Maybe, just maybe, were they actually interested in YOU? As oppose to just randomly grabbing guys and being hopeful ke kuch kuch ho jayga?
I don't know. I'm a total proponent of women proactively looking for their men - actually most women do, but they just do it in a sly and catty way, so you dont even KNOW you're being hunted as a man. But they're totally hunting. Proactively.
Like, I've had bad experiences with a few guys. Am I used goods now, and a guy should be ashamed of being with me? Because I talked to other men?
This is typical archaic Pakistani thinking. Tsk Monk. I thought you were better than that.
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Come to think of it, I did not think with PCG's angle so yes that can happen as well.
Yeah this is what I don't get. When you go rishta hunting, please do realize, the girls you propose to might have gotten 20 proposals before you came along. Would you hold that against them? No. But if their family INITIATED a couple of proposals before you, then you would hold that against them? You're basically saying that a woman's family should not be proactive about looking for a match for their daughter, which is just wrong.
Now, Aisha's description above is silly, but what you're describing..I mean you're assuming they approach other guys like they approached YOU. Maybe, just maybe, were they actually interested in YOU? As oppose to just randomly grabbing guys and being hopeful ke kuch kuch ho jayga?
I don't know. I'm a total proponent of women proactively looking for their men - actually most women do, but they just do it in a sly and catty way, so you dont even KNOW you're being hunted as a man. But they're totally hunting. Proactively.
Like, I've had bad experiences with a few guys. Am I used goods now, and a guy should be ashamed of being with me? Because I talked to other men?
This is typical archaic Pakistani thinking. Tsk Monk. I thought you were better than that.
Hey girl I was not giving my own translation to what he wrote, I was just describing something that actually happened. Funny thing is the guy that the girl's mom was prospecting her daughter to is a Kuchi Memon too. Now he is married though and has a kid but back then. I think I told you his mom's name on chat.
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skittelz, perfect reply :k:
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the only thing i'm seeing in your posts monk is severe insecurity on your part. i really don't understand why you think the way you do about this girl and her mother, unless there is a lot more to the story than you are sharing.
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what a load of gobblyguke.
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LOL. I also find it funny. A guy talks to a girl for like 5 mins at lunch.
And the girl and her mum think hes interested for marriage and ruthlessly all go out.
It is degrading ones image. Isnt in our culture the 'guys' supposed to do the wooing. And it lowers the respect if the girl starts first.
Girls who start signals is indication shes desparate or somthing is fishy.
But Monk you have added unnecesry spice. LOL
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Monk i think you should write out the conversation that took place. just to give us a better idea u know :D
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Monk- mi last post here:
If that girl is a Immigrant Paki or so.
You - a working, independant US Passprt Holder = a iressisteble 'CATCH'
-dont u get it. Read PCG'S post about Male Hunters.
the only thing i'm seeing in your posts monk is severe insecurity on your part. i really don't understand why you think the way you do about this girl and her mother, unless there is a lot more to the story than you are sharing.
one smart cookie you are.
Monk i think you should write out the conversation that took place. just to give us a better idea u know :D
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may be i will..
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PCG
I always looked at dumped girls as victims. But I know all kind of ppl.. I know guys who promise marriage and then slept with girls.. need less to say they dumped them after.
Then 100% guys bragged about level of intimacy. Guys used terms transfer later when they let go a girl for their friends to "use" (use does not necessary means sleeping with)
(I assure you we were young... but I hated those guys.. but it takes time to know your self.. and part your way from ppl you were once close to.. so I don't talk to ppl who fail to show some character. <---this part so you don't assume any things about me or about my current friends.)
Now you tell me what would call a mother who is willing to send her daughter with sex starved paki men. Its so not normal. and IF you do it to your daughter you should knwo the rep she is going to have.
All I am saying if guy likes a girl he make it happens. He will do every thing in his power to be with her.
Now if mum is facilitating boys with the company of their girl ... u know....its kind of ....facilitating men...
I am not saying that is intentional escorting.. I think its more like mum being dumb... or mum having no trust in daughters own virtue(looks + personality)
Monk, are you really a green card holder? from the way you write your posts you seem a bit 'fresh' in which case, I agree with you, complete desperation from the girl's mum to get her hooked up with any old yardie.
nice insult.. but do you any thing to say beside writhing english.