Monk, you know what you said about intentions...that you could have just "used her" was really bad...and that's all. It just makes you sound like a bad guy with impure thoughts and you don't really care.
It's like saying oh I drink alcohol, so what at least I admit it with no remorse. See what I am saying?
nik trust me.... I know how guys talk about girls.. how they feel about them. It just make me mad when women either don't know it them self.. OR the tend to over look it.. making excuses.
As a nation/race we are not mature about women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And I certainly don't want to put our women to the test to check maturity level of the society or... to put their reputation at risk to make society more mature about women.
I am sorry I pick wrong word to say what could have been so simple to describe.