Escaping the Rat Race

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Mirch is right ! It is easyto simplify one's liveswhen one can differentiate between one's wants and ones needs . However the question arises isthat its not about a single person but the fact that his decision to s"simplify" his life affects those around him and those dependant on him! You cannot enforce your definition of what you want and what you need on another individual because there are things that may just be a want to you but is a need to someone else !


Secondly even though one may wanna simplify one's life , one still needs the bare essentials and nowadays even acquiring that involves being part of the rat race to some extent. The ONLY alternative in my mind would be to leave all worldly associtaions and go live "The Simple Life " in a far flung village in a remote corner of Pakistan where you could probably contribute and do some good and at the same time remove the stresses of life.

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Too Much to Read Sheyn, I just dropped to say Hi.

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Bobby …Hi …:cb:


too much to read or too much pink ???:smiley:


read it , i think u’ll agree with it :slight_smile:


***P.S how is ur holiday coming along? ***

Pink am used to , its the limit of my understanding .. i only have a limited amount of brain cells :stuck_out_tongue:

am sure i ll agree with you , i will read it. although i ve heard of the rat race term before but not looked into it much.

Alhamdolillah Holiday is going great actually, its the pertfect weather here, home cooked food, the family and frends. teaching 3 - 4 hours a day, namaz jumaah etc. all going well since Dad is still in pak.

just too too busy to come around here much especially after my laptop died and so i returned it. any free time i get is i rest.

anyways meri khair hai am home, you tell how are you and hows things work etc?

anyways i gotta go. so inshaAllah see ya laters. Bye

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things are fyne at work , alhumdullilah considering i’m not working :hehe:


planning on going on a holiday soon , inshallah , so pray things go well :slight_smile:

I know there is difference between wants and needs, but needs are expensive too these days :smack: and what if people around you don’t want simple life? and you still have to work for health insurance, retirement funds, car insurance and what if a person has medical bills, student loans and stuff.

oh cool. taking some time off, you need it.

oh good hope ur plans come to light, where you planning to come :@: inshaAllah my prayers are with you as always :slight_smile:

Tell me about it. :bummer: .
I am finding out the hard way that it is hard to get out of rat race once you join it. :smack:

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^but how to get out? tips? what are you doing to get out? are you cutting down on your bills? but how?

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Getting OUT of the rat race is the whole point of this thread apples :smack:








P.S Hieeeeee :wave:

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^I know, but I don’t see anyone posting any ideas :smack:
People people…get back to work, sheyn and I need answers on how not to get involved in this rat race.

p.s. :waves:

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Trying to get out of the rat race is a rate race in & of itself

Apples i’ve figured it out !



First step is to have a gameplan …make a list of what u can and can’t live without …


Second step is how practically to achieve that



now start maknig a list and lemme knoe :smiley:

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^Good idea…but those prada handbags always look appealing :smack:
but in all seriousness, making a list is a fantastic idea…I’ll let you know

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I think the only way to get out of the rat race is to have the financial indepedence to not need to be in the race to begin with.

Asking how not to be involved in the rat race is like asking how to survive without water. sigh another 30 years to go....