views such as mulim women this or muslim women that. muslim men this or muslim men that. what the heck?
does it ever occur to people that there is something called, each to her/his own!?
how often is it that we get swamped by suspicious looks of incredibility, that since we belong to the faith of Islam, or the Faith belong to us, that muslims are all alike.
that just because the amoral man is standing next to a moral man - both being muslims, can cause the moral man, to be called amoral, because he is sexually oppressed?
how screwed up this thought is?
what is it that men, who do not engage in amorality, being muslims, do, when they have to justify and elaborate and explain that NOT ALL MEN ARE ALIKE. THAT THERE IS A TIME, WHEN PEOPLES’ MINDS ARE SICKENED BY ENVIRONMENT OR LACK OF MORAL EDUCATION AND VALUES AT HOME AND BY THEIR PARENTS AND INSESITIVE CULTUTES AND AMORAL COMPANY.
same is a dilemma for decent muslimah women.
it is also true that muslims are not some special creature that does not go through puberty and adolescence, that people who are follow islam as their faith, do not feel the need to see the opposite gender and decide on a agreeable mate, eventually.
so, while it is perfectly normal and allowed, under true islam, to find and establish the qualified mate and then have a mate, and engage in intimate relationship based on ethics and respect for each other and be loyal to each other and build the institute of a family and a couple, what is not allowed is obscenity, self exhibitionism and unsacred relation out of wed-lock, without the sanctity of a pure companionate relationship between an agreeing woman and the agreeing man.
people can’t blame another society for the whole 100% of some peoples’ moral corruption. by the way, this could be a society or country, in which these people choose to be living, working along and existing among other people, who may have totally different values or no values and they may belong to and associate with a given faith-background, or they may not.
the fulcrum on which a given amoral person tries to moves the argument for amorality as a function of personal irresponsibility, can’t be accepted as such.
and in that scenario, muslim youth and unmarried or young married couples, have A HUGE responsibility, upon their shoulders to shrugg off any inclination or attribution of mis information and propaganda which contaminates their characters and assaults their personal modesty, merely because they are ascribed amorality for being from a faith, wherein this craze for sexuality is not allowed to be governing their lives. which again, if is by choice, that is perfectly fine that people do not want to be immodest , but value one proper relationship with a worthy person.
yet, many people are immodest. one could say, it is their personal business. but, one should
also see, that it could become your personal business, but immodesty will haunt your life, with you significant other, being in violation of her/his sincere relationship with you.
someone needs to tell such lost souls, simply this: "because there are other important things to live for… because you can’t ran-sack Islam as a faith, to cover your own un-ethics and disrespect for your bodies and of the bodies of the people you disgrace and abuse, if you have guts and shames, own up to your amoral living, as your own actions and not expect to be called good muslim women and men, to cover for your blasé’ neglect of your faith and modesty. amorality and immodesty comes from you, and not necessarily from what is around you and if you can, try to learn from decent and morally educated people, how to stay clean and guilt-less, when you are ready!. "
thoughts on people who pretend that they are muslims and yet their actions bring shame to other muslims, too.
and thoughts on wrong attribution to either Islam as an sexually oppressive religion and muslim women and men being oppressed as a consequence, for which the contemporary generations are and have been falling prey to amorality and as such that gets this same label of perverts for all muslim women and men.
serious perspectives, only.
By farrrrrrr, one of the best posts I’ve read around here!! So well-written, I can’t even think of anything to add. You are absolutely right. 