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Situation: You love each other but either you or he/she just doesn’t agree with each others on any single issue but still both love each other. Brawl is going on every single day so will you’ll going to say ‘enough is enough’ ?
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did u commit to another by marriage ? then stick to it damn it suffer through it.. u decided to marry now stay.... husband has last say or wife has ..decide and stick to it. it not a game.
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Walaikum Salaam.
Love does not mean you have to agree with each other on everything. However disagreeing on everything is also not healthy and it only causes friction in the relationship in some time however if it hasnt done so in your relationship, then maybe there is something else really strong in the relationship like respect for each other inspite of the differences. But honestly i feel that can be possible in rare cases and eventually they will turn down too because you have to have some similiarities and common grounds to make a happy, comfortable life together.
The people involved in the above situation are the best judge to know how much of the arguments/disagreements are worth the relationship.
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You/they need to learn to compromise, compromise is important in most relationships.
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I guess you just pick and choose your battles. If the issue that you don't agree on is something broad like let's say...politics or some topic/idea that most likely you'll never be confronted with...let it go. If it's something that will impact your relationship and others (kids, family members, etc)...then it deserves greater attention.
If you've noticed that you both are frequently arguing ..then bring this point up and work together to resolve the issues. Maybe make a list (together) about the pros and cons of an issue. And then work on compromises together. There has to be some give and take. Sometimes there's an agreement that one person will get what they want at a later time...if they can just stick it out with a situation that the other partner wants. Or you both explore an option that meets (if not all)...then the most important needs of both partners. There's different ways to make compromises/deals.
As for when you say "Enough is enough"....depends on the individual.
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makes me think you might be a confused character
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**never say "enuf is enuf' to someone who is closely related to you or someone who you have good relationship with because once you say that you inadvertently break the thread of love which can never be joined together. if you somehow manage to do9 that then there will be a knot in that thread. urdu meN ek fiqra hai:
pakke dhaagoN se bandhe rishte kabhii TooT jaayeN to phir nahiiN juRte aur agar juR bhii jaayeN to un meN geeTh paR jaatii hai.**
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I don't understand the nature of love in this situation.
Is it attraction? Care? Liking for the personalities? All of them? Something else?
I find that the people I have disagreements with and still love, like my parents and siblings, all I need is a new perspective to be able to understand where they are coming from. Because of different life experiences though, I don't have to agree with them or follow their advice. But for someone like a partner, I don't think not having a common ground on major issues is good.
I would want peace with love. But often all you need to do is sit down and LISTEN to each other. Do that. If it still doesn't work, you might be doing yourself a favour by moving on - that is if you aren't yet married. Alternatively, take the commitment as strongly as a marriage and work at the issue until it's resolved.