Girls I am not saying I disapprove of haq mehr I just find the deferred haq mehr better than the one I believe is supposed to be paid upfront, to put it in simple words: before the guy can even touch his wife. Not that I feel like imagining any such thing right now but if I think of my husband talking to me for a bit maybe and then handing me over a check or cash I wouldn’t feel so grand. But then I have issues accepting money or being paid for by others anyway so its a deep-rooted problem that needs to be worked on
Lets not digress. We can always open up a new thread if this is what we want to discuss.
but if I think of my husband talking to me for a bit maybe and then handing me over a check or cash I wouldn’t feel so grand. But then I have issues accepting money or being paid for by others anyway so its a deep-rooted problem that needs to be worked on 