When I got engaged my fiance didn’t get me a ring instead he got me a dress and jewellery. Now for the wedding he has got me a ring - I absolutely love it, A stunning classic brillaint cut solitare, but in my view its looks very much like an enagagement ring not a wedding ring. Too me a wedding ring is a wedding band.
As I am buying his wedding band, I am thinking I’l buy one for me that obviously compliments his.
Question is A) shall i ask him to pay for it? Im not fussed about the money being just a plain white gold it does’t really cost much - Im more concerned about the principal. Im indifferent either way, however I don’t want to seem petty either - Im not good at asking for presents nor money!
And B) On the wedding day will it seem odd if he puts both the ‘engagement - wedding’ ring and wedding band on me at the same time. If it was an either/or situation then I would just want him to put the wedding band on my finger as thats what I associate weddings with, but I know that he wont be happy with that. Everybody else tells me not to get the wedding band and buy it later as it will look odd if he puts both rings on me - but I personally don’t see the point on buying a wedding band if its not given to you on ur wedding day.
And lastly did anyone have their bands engraved, if so do you mind sharing?
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