Engagement - Should you communicate a lot or keep it limited?

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Re: Engagement - Should you communicate a lot or keep it limited?

@Princess121

Well I don’t really know how else to say it apart from getting to know him!
Maybe: his personality, his behaviour, his morals, etc etc etc

I just don’t think meeting 2 or 3 times is going to be enough. He could easily act differently in those couple of times. Likewise I’m probably going to feel embarassed and awkward the first couple of times I meet him too.

You’re going to spend AN ENTIRE lifetime with him! Surely, meeting up regularly like for coffees or lunches every now and then can only be a good thing? I’m not saying to get so close that you act like you’re already married but at the same time I don’t want to marry a stranger…!

but you need to be sure.