hey for ur engagement outfit i suggest u go for something relatively simple. You could go for a soft color like a soft blue or lavender and have a slightly flaired kameez with azaars. those are the latest im getting made here in pk. Or u could go with chooridars as well.
what one wants is something easily wearable so u could wear it to other wedding functions u attend to as well.
Anything on light jamavar looks amazing. you could have jaal all over the front of teh shirt with a light stoned neck with dabka and stone work on teh neck and sleeves.
What's azaars?