That's what i thought....that the girls side give pressied to boys side on shadi and not engagement...
But they are giving some suits to me (which in understandable) and some to the rest of my family (i don't know if that is normal or not...)
originally we were jsut going to give my dulha a watch but seeing as they are getting my family gifts (things like shirts) we felt we should get them stuff...
im punjabi and he is urdu so we are not too sure about rasams and lena dena and all that...