Re: Engagement breaking
I wouldn’t say that he treated her as a commodity. He just didn’t take the time to do things properly in the beginning (i.e. get a good look at the girl to see if he’s attracted to her at all or not). I’ve heard of guys being rejected by girls for the same reason, except that they didn’t take it as far as an engagement. I too hope that the girl gets a good husband, inshAllah.