how do you face them, when they are eager to face you?
share if you like?
best,
Dushwari
how do you face them, when they are eager to face you?
share if you like?
best,
Dushwari
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
jo bura kerta hain unkey saath bura hota hai.
so dont really care
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
i just won’t do much…try to avoid them if possible..else treat just like the others…& try to turn them into friends…
come to think of it..i don’t think i’ve ever had enemies..![]()
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
hurt them back with full force before they hurt u.AS its said offence is the best defence.
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
^i don't agree @ all with wht is said above..
i believe in "forgive & forget"
:)
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
^^everybody is entitled for her/his own opinion.Some people are not good as its been made out inthe books/movies/stories.Forgive and forget theory works only for say around 1%of the people(who can be reformed), otherwise for 99% forget and forgive will be a sort of encouragement to harm u again and again.
And not everybody can be a saint like u who never harms others and forgives people.And if mojority of people are saint like u then world will be a better place to live-in;alas its not so.
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
how do you face them, when they are eager to face you? share if you like?
best, Dushwari
Understanding the reasons for the animosity can be very helpful. without going into the details of different forms of hostilities, I would say that some of them are unavoidable, one has to face and face them in a most befitting way. On the other hand some of them are mere incorrect or twisted perception, a friendly clarification serves the purpose. communication gap and the lack of a forum to debate the issues always pave the way for the matter to be settled in battle field. A smile is capable of pushing the gun back to its holster.
Peace
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
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^^everybody is entitled for her/his own opinion
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sry...i had not meant to sound rude:(
maybe i just didnt chose the right words...:(
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A smile is capable of pushing the gun back to its holster.
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true:)
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
thanks everybody, all is well said and well taken.
patience and being clear oneself is the best asserted without any malaise, or trickery.
rest is uncomplicated when people are able to gracefully subject to and admit their own mistake, and not repeat it again ever. rest is profound emotions, if understood, great, if not, the loss is of the insensitive and the one who merely carries a front.
best,
Dushwari
Re: enemies, people who are out to hurt you
i roll my eyes
like what ever looooooooser