Ending a relationship

Lifestyle Relationships
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According to many of the posts here–

a man being verbally abusive is no reason to end a relationship.
a man flirting with other women (be it online/in person etc) is no reason to end a relationship.
:rolleyes:
a person having psychological issues is no reason to end a relationship.

So what IS a valid reason to end a relationship/rishta?

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cheating, physical abuse

although the reasons that you mentioned would cause problems in the relationship

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Cheating, lying, stealing, drinking, doing drugs, etc.

It depends on the severity of the situation. If its a one time transgression that happens in anger, leaving the guy without giving him a chance to improve might be a bad idea.

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I will say the reasons you mentioned above ARE valid if they keep happening and the offender does nothing to correct themselves.

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In a marriage, I understand the need to stick it out and do everything possible to make it through

But in a relationship where you're not even legally or religiously bound....why put up with so much?

I've heard many times throughout that the engagement period is supposed to be the "honeymoon" period....so if the relationship already has so much drama at that point, whose to say that things will change after they're married?

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r u talking abt reasons for a breakup …:rolleyes:

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She is devil’s advocate.

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In any of these situations.. If you have kids try to make the most of your relationship for their sake. If you don’t have kids then end it.

oh and by ‘make the most’ both parties should be willing to improve. If not then you’re just banging your head against the wall.

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I guess guyz wont need any reason for a breakup .. bcoz 1 of my friend he had a recent breakup n reason was lik he dont lik her parents … … :cb:

Advocate cant do anything in these kinda special cases … :smiley:

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Do you not understand simple english?

?

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I mean someone has to bring these kind of things out in the open for discussion so that we all can learn from our and others mistakes.

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Taking one’s last slice of cheesecake without asking. :mad:

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same goes for chocolate :stuck_out_tongue:

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To some people a relationship isn't much different from a marriage, it all depends on the people involved and their mentality. You truly have to be compatible from all angles to one another to have such a strong relationship and make it work. So it doesn't matter what happens (cheating/ hitting/ lying/drinking etc.), both partners think 1000x before getting out. Of course this can only work if both are cooperating, not just one doing all the work.

Now the 3 points which you listed above, are minor if done once or twice. So not worth ending a relationship/marriage. But if any of those 3 points are continuous habits, in a relationship OR a marriage, it's a major problem. And the "victim" should get out asap.

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why do we need reason(s) to end a relationship?

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incompatible goals.

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When you have nothing to fight over.

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When you stop considering that a relationship is the result of a mutual effort from both parties !

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when your relationship lacks mutual trust and respect.