I m just thinking…with so many breakups right at the end, when one of them is getting married to someone they dont love…actually this situation cant be stopped…but yes one can conclude or put the thoughts together to write what can be the reason…is it really family pressure or is it kind of any insecurity
Couldn't it just be both?
Couldn't it just be both?
it can be but why does it have to happen right at the end...it could hve happened..before that...just think how one would go through that situation...how hurting would that be...and i think those ppl no more able to have a good relationship with their life partners...and what kind of insecurity does one feel that time...
well maybe they were trying to make it work, maybe everything else was great, but there was one thing holding them back from making the lifetime committment
What kind of insecurity? when they both love each other and other than that he/she is marrying to some stranger so how can that stranger assure security? Well i guess you are pointing to "marriage" as a security thing here.
I guess it's pressure on every side including the family and between the couple as well. Still it's something so personal that only the individual making the choices knows the truth, we can't really comment on that. Sometimes it's family pressure, sometimes they think the made commitment with the wrong person...sometimes they just get bored with their partner and sometimes they don't have enough courage to stand up for themselves. There can be hundreds of reasons. But one should think about them before committing to someone as well.
the second paragraph is good..
when you love someone you actually feel secure with them...the feeling of insecurity MIGHT come when one is trying to leave his 2-4 yrs relationship just because he has family pressure of getting married to another person...i dont think this can be the only reason...but yes some families do give a loads of pressure to select the person they have chosen...
yeah there are many reasons and also a thing called destiny sometimes plays it's role as well. Maybe some people are just not destine to be together
I don't think anyone can ever answer that question, until they are put in those shoes and experience the emotions, insecurities, pressure..etc...and even then, I believe that it's still one of those questions that has no concrete answer.
But I do believe that whatever happens, it happens for a reason. Yes, in that our hearts and everyone else who is involved has their heart played with
Re: End of relationship
write a book. Dedicate it to me 
Re: End of relationship
some ppl come together on earth but r really not made for each other in heavens