Enabling people who don't learn from their mistakes

[Paheli00]

Re: Enabling people who don’t learn from their mistakes

@Sehrysh

Why don’t you quit your job? Give any savings you have to your parents (kind of like he’s done with his) and tell him he needs to pay for all of the household expenses by himself. Then see what he can afford.

I actually agree with this.

Siren, why do you work? It seems to pretty much most (if not all) the money you earn goes to pay for HIS family one way or another. Most of it doesn’t even seem to be “needs”…they’re “wants”. It’s definitely not going towards savings. And your husband’s salary is enough to pay the household bills/expenses.

I don’t know how you find the strength to go to work day after day knowing that the money you earn won’t benefit YOU (i.e. your own marriage/future) at all.