Have you had an interaction with so and so person for example…and after they leave,it seems that they have drained you out off all the good /positive feelings… another variatiation to that kind are the ones that as they leave it that tomorow all the world is gonna blow up we will all die and go to hell…
And then there r others…that as soon as they leave u have this positive feeling…like the world is yours.:).no matter how things are bad with them …they make it sound that its nothing..
Its just that there r times with the emotional vampire folks… the thingsthat happen to em like their nail breaking means the end of their world:rolleyes:…My defence is not picking up their phone:cb:..So u guys…Been there:faizy:
yup iv had dat…adn it all depends with the type of person u interact with…for example im the negative type, i prepare for the worst but hope for the best…and with me i wud make u feel negative (sumtimes) but Atif, well he wud make u feel 100% positive and u wud leave the room with a smile on ur face thinking ‘i can sooo do this’…one of the reasons i married him for..:halo:
so yeh it entirley depends on the person ur interacting with…
Thats really cool…I work with some people like that and the thing is its amazing how some just whine whine whine…u end up listening and spending sooo much time on their bs…later feeling robbed of time and energy:bummer:
Not just phone...there are some people I know that do it in person too..One of em a double masters gelologist something(who is too brainy for all of us folks too...as acclaimed by her:D)...whose name I have kept as dooms day theorist...she sucks up the whole air in a room in one wiff..according to her we all r gonna goto hell after we drop dead right this instance.......
then there are some that once their mouth starts moving …there is just so much bitterness that there is just no notice of the listener’s disdain or disinterest in the monologue!..
My only defence is total ignore as of this moment…but that doesnt help if you are face to face and that wrath is aimed at you then:bummer:…just had a session from a complain master…..ok me done venting:(…
..ok me done venting:(…