What do you do when your parents emotionally torture you to marry their choice even when you don’t want to marry that person?Do you give up & end up marrying their choice?
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Does the situation includes a love story also 
? I mean a person who wants to marry a girl/ guy of his choice but parents want them to marry with their choice.
I guess girls/ guys tend to agree to parents choice more often if they are already not interested in someone. There is usually a phadda of a greater extent if they are already involved in someone.
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*Emotional Torture
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is there a reason why your parents want you to marry their choice. if there's nobody that you have in mind already then why not keep an open mind about this.
Parents are only thinking of what's good for you, there must be a reason why they chose him for you, what's the harm in getting to know the guy, who knows you might actually start liking him after you get to know him.
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Sometimes the parents cannot comprehend whats bothering you/ the negatives of the proposal. Its better to take a stand there. The main person who is to marry and manage should be raazi first. Everyone else' s willingness is secondary.
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Zaalim Samaaj. :(
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this happened with one of my friend her parents emotionally forced her to marry her cousin whome she never considered even she wasnt willing to bcz she had some doubts abt that person but anyhow finally they have got married now. that person says that he loves her from the start but never actually keeps her happy
end result is her parents thought good for her and her husbands says he loves her but it all turned out to be worse for her i have always seen her crying
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this happened with one of my friend her parents emotionally forced her to marry her cousin whome she never considered even she wasnt willing to bcz she had some doubts abt that person but anyhow finally they have got married now. that person says that he loves her from the start but never actually keeps her happy end result is her parents thought good for her and her husbands says he loves her but it all turned out to be worse for her i have always seen her crying
May be she is too stubborn to accept any good point of her husband and always crying. Many girls and guys do these type of things when they are forced to do anything.
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May be she is too stubborn to accept any good point of her husband and always crying. Many girls and guys do these type of things when they are forced to do anything.
Yes. When forced into marriage, sometimes girls/ guys cannot just accept the spouse and tends to be unhappy for no reason. Its better for her to accept her husband. It won't be that difficult if she was not interested in someone else previously.
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quit talking to parents,break the dishes at home. i have heard it works. And even then u get married ,break the guys bartan as well.
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I KNOW THIS SOUNDS CRAZY, BUT IT JUST MIGHT WORK!
